Playing Nerf football with the kids:
Me (after diving for a spiral sent to me by George which has left a burning sensation in my knee!) "I'm too old for this!"
Mimi (watching on the side lines)
"You mean you're not new??"
I have discovered what my super power is: INVISIBILITY...obviously, since no one listens or pays attention to me!!!!
Monday, December 29, 2008
Thursday, December 25, 2008
Happy Holidays!
Every year the same...I get my shopping done early and don't start wrapping until 11:00 Christmas Eve night. Oi vey.
George fell asleep and snored again during our Christmas Eve service--something about Dudley's voice lulls him into lala land!
Mimi started farting silent but deadly ones about 15 minutes into the service...
Pulled a VERY botched scam on the Knolls with our plastic Santa. THEY WEREN'T SUPPOSED TO BE HOME!!!! I suck supremely at driving getaway...I stopped, frozen by fear and then turned myself in. Yes, I am a loser. Better luck next year with the blow up nativity scene.
Watched the Polar Express which scared the crap out of the kids...We've been reading the book every day for the past three weeks and I thought it would be nice to show them the movie. To quote the great Borat: "NOT."
Anyway...Happy Holidays, Merry Christmas, Happy Festivus!! Whatever you celebrate or don't celebrate--do it with gusto!!!!!
Now off to bed only to get up early and start the food fest!!!!!!!
George fell asleep and snored again during our Christmas Eve service--something about Dudley's voice lulls him into lala land!
Mimi started farting silent but deadly ones about 15 minutes into the service...
Pulled a VERY botched scam on the Knolls with our plastic Santa. THEY WEREN'T SUPPOSED TO BE HOME!!!! I suck supremely at driving getaway...I stopped, frozen by fear and then turned myself in. Yes, I am a loser. Better luck next year with the blow up nativity scene.
Watched the Polar Express which scared the crap out of the kids...We've been reading the book every day for the past three weeks and I thought it would be nice to show them the movie. To quote the great Borat: "NOT."
Anyway...Happy Holidays, Merry Christmas, Happy Festivus!! Whatever you celebrate or don't celebrate--do it with gusto!!!!!
Now off to bed only to get up early and start the food fest!!!!!!!
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
WARNING: Sex Education Lesson
Well, I wasn't going to blog this, but I can't resist.
Driving home the other day with only Mimi and Vinny, this was the conversation:
"Mama?..."
"Yes, Mimi."
"How did Vincent get in your tummy?"
(ignore--silence--maybe she'll forget she asked me that, because I am NOT the mother who will say an angel puts babies in your tummy!)
"Mama...I'm talking to you. How did Vincent get in your tummy?"
"Well...Daddy put him him there." (That should suffice, right??)
"Mama?"
"Yes, Mimi..."
"How? How did Daddy put Vinny in your tummy?"
(omg.)
"Well, Daddy and Mommy were napping, and when they woke up, Vinny was in Mommy's tummy." (Score!)
"When you were sleeping?"
"Yes, Mimi."
"And did Vinny come from your tootie?"
(It always comes back to that!)
"Yes, that's how some babies come out."
"But how did he come out?"
"You have to push really hard and he pops out, and the doctor grabs him!"
(long period of silence. Could this finally be over??)
"Mama..."
"Yes, Mimi?"
"I don't want to push a baby out of my tootie right now. That would be owie."
(Oh, thank goodness!)
So...there you have it. She asked, I answered. And...we have already had the "what makes a baby" discussion, which I told her almost everything. She just said, 'OK." I did omit how sperm and eggs actually find each other--thought she might be traumatized. Sorry, Sara...I know I used the "s" word!!!!!!
Driving home the other day with only Mimi and Vinny, this was the conversation:
"Mama?..."
"Yes, Mimi."
"How did Vincent get in your tummy?"
(ignore--silence--maybe she'll forget she asked me that, because I am NOT the mother who will say an angel puts babies in your tummy!)
"Mama...I'm talking to you. How did Vincent get in your tummy?"
"Well...Daddy put him him there." (That should suffice, right??)
"Mama?"
"Yes, Mimi..."
"How? How did Daddy put Vinny in your tummy?"
(omg.)
"Well, Daddy and Mommy were napping, and when they woke up, Vinny was in Mommy's tummy." (Score!)
"When you were sleeping?"
"Yes, Mimi."
"And did Vinny come from your tootie?"
(It always comes back to that!)
"Yes, that's how some babies come out."
"But how did he come out?"
"You have to push really hard and he pops out, and the doctor grabs him!"
(long period of silence. Could this finally be over??)
"Mama..."
"Yes, Mimi?"
"I don't want to push a baby out of my tootie right now. That would be owie."
(Oh, thank goodness!)
So...there you have it. She asked, I answered. And...we have already had the "what makes a baby" discussion, which I told her almost everything. She just said, 'OK." I did omit how sperm and eggs actually find each other--thought she might be traumatized. Sorry, Sara...I know I used the "s" word!!!!!!
Sunday, December 21, 2008
Wow!
I would just like to say that Jason's choir kicked serious choral ass today. Yes, I used the word ass. It was THAT good!
Saturday, December 20, 2008
Spreading Holiday Cheer!
Here are a couple of short excerpts from our Cherub & Children's Choirs' performances last Wednesday. The Children's Choir presented "An Island Christmas" and did a smashing job! This was one of my favorites in the show...the Cherubs were just plain cute...thanks, Julie!
Birthdays, good cheer and such...
Today is Natan's third birthday, and I can't believe it! 3!!!! We had a little "party" with chocolate cake--he ate three pieces and seemed satisfied with that! Blew out is own candles with great gusto and can now proudly hold up three fingers for his age. We're still working on him knowing it's actually his birthday!! All in good time...
Spent yesterday at Jason's school in the morning--lots of fun seeing my old coworkers...
Then, on to Egelston to deliver the kids' toys, blankets and stuffed animals to the Child Life folks. Mimi and George did not like the idea at first but agreed afterward that they felt very good, knowing that kids who are sick in the "hospiter" would feel a little better with a new toy...mission accomplished.
Mimi got to have big bed snuggles last night and told me this morning that she "enjoyed the snuggles and just having girl time with Mommy." We are having a girls' day out later this week--her idea!
Christmas, the new cat, is adjusting somewhat. Between being chased by the dogs and groped by one of four kids, he is doing surprisingly well! he is a gorgeous kitty, and being 8 years old, he is pretty cool and laid back. Thank goodness--Jason now has an equal in the house!!
So...just getting ready to have about 20 or so in the house for Christmas dinner. Jason is making his now annual Flaming Figgy Pudding...
Ahhh...life is good!
Spent yesterday at Jason's school in the morning--lots of fun seeing my old coworkers...
Then, on to Egelston to deliver the kids' toys, blankets and stuffed animals to the Child Life folks. Mimi and George did not like the idea at first but agreed afterward that they felt very good, knowing that kids who are sick in the "hospiter" would feel a little better with a new toy...mission accomplished.
Mimi got to have big bed snuggles last night and told me this morning that she "enjoyed the snuggles and just having girl time with Mommy." We are having a girls' day out later this week--her idea!
Christmas, the new cat, is adjusting somewhat. Between being chased by the dogs and groped by one of four kids, he is doing surprisingly well! he is a gorgeous kitty, and being 8 years old, he is pretty cool and laid back. Thank goodness--Jason now has an equal in the house!!
So...just getting ready to have about 20 or so in the house for Christmas dinner. Jason is making his now annual Flaming Figgy Pudding...
Ahhh...life is good!
Tuesday, December 09, 2008
Christmas comes early...
Here is what Santa Claus brought Mimi...early! Meet "Christmas" the cat. Score that Santa was at the Petsmart where Santa delivered Christmas--it was PURRRRFECT!!!!!!! She was/is super excited!
Monday, December 08, 2008
Why?
Why?
Why did Jason give recorders to the three big kids?
Why?
They can't play them--they just toot.
Why?
Sure...he gets misty eyed and says, "It's cute--they're only little once."
Why?
Tomorrow morning, when it's early and they are tooting, he will be sitting in his quiet classroom, waiting for students to come in...there won't be any tooting.
Why?
why.
toot. toot. toot. toot.
Why did Jason give recorders to the three big kids?
Why?
They can't play them--they just toot.
Why?
Sure...he gets misty eyed and says, "It's cute--they're only little once."
Why?
Tomorrow morning, when it's early and they are tooting, he will be sitting in his quiet classroom, waiting for students to come in...there won't be any tooting.
Why?
why.
toot. toot. toot. toot.
Wednesday, December 03, 2008
Sunday, November 23, 2008
Brrr...
14 degrees F ...
snow on the ground...
4 LARGE coffees before 9:00...
slept five in the bed last night--not as bad as one would imagine!!!!
an hour to get the kids in their boots, mitts, toques, scarves, coats...
snow angels...
Santa Claus parade today--we will never warm up after that...
glad to be alive after driving through London in snow squalls--almost 3 feet dumped!
happy that kids are having fun and baby is sleeping well!
committed to getting Natan's adenoids removed over the holidays in December--he SNORES and grumbles ALL NIGHT!!!!!
Ahhh....life in Canada!!!!
snow on the ground...
4 LARGE coffees before 9:00...
slept five in the bed last night--not as bad as one would imagine!!!!
an hour to get the kids in their boots, mitts, toques, scarves, coats...
snow angels...
Santa Claus parade today--we will never warm up after that...
glad to be alive after driving through London in snow squalls--almost 3 feet dumped!
happy that kids are having fun and baby is sleeping well!
committed to getting Natan's adenoids removed over the holidays in December--he SNORES and grumbles ALL NIGHT!!!!!
Ahhh....life in Canada!!!!
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Choir Debut!
Mimi & George made their Cherub Choir debut last Sunday morning--I recorded the rehearsal. Very cute.
Friday, November 14, 2008
Great Day!
For no known reason, we just had a FABULOUS day today! We, as Mimi explained to Da tonight over dinner, "painted naked." Yes, the kids painted naked since we were using acrylic paint which is NOT washable!!! They managed to cover the entire counter, all of George, the two stools, but what fun!! Nothing like homemade Christmas gifts...
I kicked my own butt running 9 minute miles this morning!!! I never thought I would get back to running like that again, and it feels great!! What did not feel great was having to hop over the robots being thrown onto the treadmill by George--I am however, getting VERY agile!!
Vinny had his six month check up and performed very well--sat up...babbled...smiled...and it turns out he is our tallest kid so far--in the 90th percentile for height!
Enjoyed Mellow Mushroom for supper--meatball and green olive pizza!
Mimi's newest phrase: "That's not my story to tell...you'll have to ask ______ about that story." (She has, I suspect, learned this from Miss Jeannie at the Homeschool Co-op and it is a good solution to tattle tales!).
I gave the two big boys haircuts...I tried to shape Natan's into a nice rounded, short, curly look, but ended up going over his whole head with a number one and two blade...then I tried for the "Obama Bangs"...that didn't turn out so great either. So, he now just has a buzz cut. But, he is still gorgeous!!!!!!
Life is indeed wonderful...
FYI--LOVING the Christmas music at Walmart tonight!! I am ready!!!!!!!!! Bring on the mistletoe and decorations!!!!!!!!
Oh my...it's 11:00. I am very tired--it's not the kids' fault, is it?? I stay up way too late!!!!!!!
I kicked my own butt running 9 minute miles this morning!!! I never thought I would get back to running like that again, and it feels great!! What did not feel great was having to hop over the robots being thrown onto the treadmill by George--I am however, getting VERY agile!!
Vinny had his six month check up and performed very well--sat up...babbled...smiled...and it turns out he is our tallest kid so far--in the 90th percentile for height!
Enjoyed Mellow Mushroom for supper--meatball and green olive pizza!
Mimi's newest phrase: "That's not my story to tell...you'll have to ask ______ about that story." (She has, I suspect, learned this from Miss Jeannie at the Homeschool Co-op and it is a good solution to tattle tales!).
I gave the two big boys haircuts...I tried to shape Natan's into a nice rounded, short, curly look, but ended up going over his whole head with a number one and two blade...then I tried for the "Obama Bangs"...that didn't turn out so great either. So, he now just has a buzz cut. But, he is still gorgeous!!!!!!
Life is indeed wonderful...
FYI--LOVING the Christmas music at Walmart tonight!! I am ready!!!!!!!!! Bring on the mistletoe and decorations!!!!!!!!
Oh my...it's 11:00. I am very tired--it's not the kids' fault, is it?? I stay up way too late!!!!!!!
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
Christmas has arrived...
We saw Santa Claus today. I took the kids to Target to have their pictures made with the man. We have, for the past three years, gone to the same place for this, but Target sold me (took me), and they are done. Long story--will not repeat this next year--back to the malls for the Montagues!
Anyhoo...the kids all ran to Santa and hugged him (change from previous years--he can be rather creepy!), and when asked what each wanted for Christmas, the replies were:
Natan: "Super! Super!" (his new, favorite word!)
George: "A present. " What kind of present, George, asked Santa. "A Christmas present." Well, what kind of Christmas present, asked Santa. "A key robot. My other key robot is broken."
Mimi: "A cat." omg.
Vinny: I think he'd like some matching upper teeth to go with the two bottom ones!!!
The kids are insisting that the decorations be put up this weekend BEFORE we leave for Canada--who am I to argue! We love Christmas!!
FYI--Sally has been out of town all week and we are LONELY!!!!! Sally...come home!!!!!!!!!!
Anyhoo...the kids all ran to Santa and hugged him (change from previous years--he can be rather creepy!), and when asked what each wanted for Christmas, the replies were:
Natan: "Super! Super!" (his new, favorite word!)
George: "A present. " What kind of present, George, asked Santa. "A Christmas present." Well, what kind of Christmas present, asked Santa. "A key robot. My other key robot is broken."
Mimi: "A cat." omg.
Vinny: I think he'd like some matching upper teeth to go with the two bottom ones!!!
The kids are insisting that the decorations be put up this weekend BEFORE we leave for Canada--who am I to argue! We love Christmas!!
FYI--Sally has been out of town all week and we are LONELY!!!!! Sally...come home!!!!!!!!!!
Monday, November 10, 2008
Various, unrelated stuff...
Today at the Dermatologist's office, Mimi was looking at pictures of people's skin--chins, thighs, stomachs, faces, etc.--and she asked me, "Where are all the tooties, Mama?" Seems Mimi has some vivid memories of the OB visits for Vinny last year!!!!
And yes, I am disgusted, saddened, and dismayed at the result in California last week...the will of the people, my foot. In a country where the divorce rate is slightly under 50%, how DARE anyone speak out against gay marriage?? Again, I ask the question--why are religious people/conservatives so obsessed with gay sex?? How does same sex marriage possibly affect YOU?? Ummm...it doesn't. Perhaps married homophobes should examine their own marriages and start fixing the problems, and leave the gay community alone. May I point out, for the record, that over the past twenty or so years, the most bigoted, mean spirited, unkind people I have met (and continue to meet) have all been heterosexual?? And, when I moved to Atlanta to live 12 years ago, my good friend invited me to move in with her and her partner--total invasion of their space I'm sure, as it would have been in any family--and I had the time of my life! They were the first people I introduced Jason to and I will never forgot their generosity.
When I first met my friend, Shaun (the one I lived with when I moved here), we sat in her car and she said to me, point blank: "I'm gay. I thought you should know that before we become friends, and then you stop being my friend because you find out I'm gay." Imagine having to say that to people because you've lost friends for such a ridiculous reason. My response: "I really don't care..you're funny and I can swear around you!" (Remember--living in Milledgeville at the time as my first experience living in GA--slight culture shock!). She became one of my best friends, and to this day, no one outside my Mum has made me laugh as hard as her...if you know me--you know that's a prerequisite for friendship!
So, in between admiring my kids and getting ready for a marathon trip to Canada, I had to vent. Just remember that you never know the friends you miss out on when you are a bigot.
And yes, I am disgusted, saddened, and dismayed at the result in California last week...the will of the people, my foot. In a country where the divorce rate is slightly under 50%, how DARE anyone speak out against gay marriage?? Again, I ask the question--why are religious people/conservatives so obsessed with gay sex?? How does same sex marriage possibly affect YOU?? Ummm...it doesn't. Perhaps married homophobes should examine their own marriages and start fixing the problems, and leave the gay community alone. May I point out, for the record, that over the past twenty or so years, the most bigoted, mean spirited, unkind people I have met (and continue to meet) have all been heterosexual?? And, when I moved to Atlanta to live 12 years ago, my good friend invited me to move in with her and her partner--total invasion of their space I'm sure, as it would have been in any family--and I had the time of my life! They were the first people I introduced Jason to and I will never forgot their generosity.
When I first met my friend, Shaun (the one I lived with when I moved here), we sat in her car and she said to me, point blank: "I'm gay. I thought you should know that before we become friends, and then you stop being my friend because you find out I'm gay." Imagine having to say that to people because you've lost friends for such a ridiculous reason. My response: "I really don't care..you're funny and I can swear around you!" (Remember--living in Milledgeville at the time as my first experience living in GA--slight culture shock!). She became one of my best friends, and to this day, no one outside my Mum has made me laugh as hard as her...if you know me--you know that's a prerequisite for friendship!
So, in between admiring my kids and getting ready for a marathon trip to Canada, I had to vent. Just remember that you never know the friends you miss out on when you are a bigot.
Saturday, November 08, 2008
Realization...
It takes five times longer to plant things with three little "helpers" assisting!!!!!!!!!
I may not have the best-looking or neatest gardens, but they are definitely created with LOVE!!!!!!
I may not have the best-looking or neatest gardens, but they are definitely created with LOVE!!!!!!
Friday, November 07, 2008
Hmmm...
Woke up this morning and the first thing Mimi and George said to me was, "Happy Birthday" without prompting...very sweet!
Mimi must have sung "Happy birthday dear Mama" at least 80 times throughout the day, AND offered me part of her dinner since it was my birthday!
The only person who FORGOT MY BIRTHDAY was Jason...not sure if there is a big enough doghouse to make up for FORGETTING MY BIRTHDAY...even the receptionist at the dermatologist's office today wished me a happy birthday when she scheduled my appt. and saw my date of birth.
Hmmm...I believe there is a big shopping spree in my future.
Mimi must have sung "Happy birthday dear Mama" at least 80 times throughout the day, AND offered me part of her dinner since it was my birthday!
The only person who FORGOT MY BIRTHDAY was Jason...not sure if there is a big enough doghouse to make up for FORGETTING MY BIRTHDAY...even the receptionist at the dermatologist's office today wished me a happy birthday when she scheduled my appt. and saw my date of birth.
Hmmm...I believe there is a big shopping spree in my future.
Wednesday, November 05, 2008
Good Morning (in a VERY sing song voice!!!)
YAY! WOW! AWESOME!
If there were a hundred words to express what I feel, it wouldn't be enough!
So excited...I actually feel lighthearted! The kids watched the morning news with me and were dancing around the sunroom singing "Obama...Obama!" Proud moment.
I'm sure there will be things in the next four years that come up and don't make sense--it happens to everyone. But...for today...at this one moment....I am ecstatic!
And now, I believe I will refrain from talking politics again. Mainly because I truly believe everyone has the right to their own opinion (unless it's a bigoted one), and I refuse to lose friends (well, certain ones!), over politics.
My policy is usually not to spout my beliefs on others and I have spewed a little over this election. Get over it. I have to listen to conservative christians attacking me all the time (either people I know or strangers), so for a few blog entries, if I babbled a little about my hope for Obama to win, I believe that can be overlooked.
It is a great morning...have a wonderful, fabulous day!
If there were a hundred words to express what I feel, it wouldn't be enough!
So excited...I actually feel lighthearted! The kids watched the morning news with me and were dancing around the sunroom singing "Obama...Obama!" Proud moment.
I'm sure there will be things in the next four years that come up and don't make sense--it happens to everyone. But...for today...at this one moment....I am ecstatic!
And now, I believe I will refrain from talking politics again. Mainly because I truly believe everyone has the right to their own opinion (unless it's a bigoted one), and I refuse to lose friends (well, certain ones!), over politics.
My policy is usually not to spout my beliefs on others and I have spewed a little over this election. Get over it. I have to listen to conservative christians attacking me all the time (either people I know or strangers), so for a few blog entries, if I babbled a little about my hope for Obama to win, I believe that can be overlooked.
It is a great morning...have a wonderful, fabulous day!
Tuesday, November 04, 2008
Cool Usher video for new release
Love this...Great Usher quote: "Everybody wants to touch the sky but nobody wants to reach down to the ones who are scared to fly..."
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=giEYHxwN5y4
Got to love someone who makes it and makes the money...and then gives back.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=giEYHxwN5y4
Got to love someone who makes it and makes the money...and then gives back.
Attitude of Gratitude
Today is just one of those beautiful, Autumn days...except for the fact that it is HOT out and I have sprouted new freckles on my face! The sky is clear and blue...there are gorgeous red and orange trees all around, and it is just my favorite time of year. Now, if I weren't so sweaty!!!
The Montagues will enjoy a nice, long walk tonight...and some homemade soup.
I am also happy because for the first time ever, I am finished all my Christmas planning. Portraits have been taken, purchased, and picked up today...small tokens have been bought for the kids...I have something for my mum, sister, and brother in law...and I even have something for Jason! Yay!! I'm really trying to make this Christmas about family, friends, and remembering how fortunate we all are, and how there are, every few seconds, children dying from ridiculous causes...
Now, if only I could wake up Christmas morning with another completed adoption, life would be perfect!!
OMG--Vinny just crawled. My life is officially over (again!!!). Go, Vin!!!!!
The Montagues will enjoy a nice, long walk tonight...and some homemade soup.
I am also happy because for the first time ever, I am finished all my Christmas planning. Portraits have been taken, purchased, and picked up today...small tokens have been bought for the kids...I have something for my mum, sister, and brother in law...and I even have something for Jason! Yay!! I'm really trying to make this Christmas about family, friends, and remembering how fortunate we all are, and how there are, every few seconds, children dying from ridiculous causes...
Now, if only I could wake up Christmas morning with another completed adoption, life would be perfect!!
OMG--Vinny just crawled. My life is officially over (again!!!). Go, Vin!!!!!
Election Day (don't read if you're going to bitch to me later!)
Today is the day!!! Even though I cannot vote, I still have a vested interest in this election.
The one thing I think that has truly come out of these two particular candidates is seeing people's true mindsets. We have heard so many people say, "Well, THOSE people can't be president..." that I am, every day, more and more disgusted with humans.
I have the sick suspicion that to many, our children represent the "token" diverse kids they know. It's OK for the Montagues to be different ethnic backgrounds, but god forbid they would allow their kids to date someone different, or even have a real friendship with someone different.
If one more person says to me: "I'm not racist, but..." I may respond unkindly--I usually try to be polite and re-educate--but I am fed up with narrow mindedness, bigotry, and all-round hatefulness. If you have to clarify your thoughts by saying that, guess what?? You ARE racist--please stay away from my children.
Obama '08.
The one thing I think that has truly come out of these two particular candidates is seeing people's true mindsets. We have heard so many people say, "Well, THOSE people can't be president..." that I am, every day, more and more disgusted with humans.
I have the sick suspicion that to many, our children represent the "token" diverse kids they know. It's OK for the Montagues to be different ethnic backgrounds, but god forbid they would allow their kids to date someone different, or even have a real friendship with someone different.
If one more person says to me: "I'm not racist, but..." I may respond unkindly--I usually try to be polite and re-educate--but I am fed up with narrow mindedness, bigotry, and all-round hatefulness. If you have to clarify your thoughts by saying that, guess what?? You ARE racist--please stay away from my children.
Obama '08.
Monday, November 03, 2008
Ramblings...nothing political!
George: (as he was zipping up his "slipper jammies"--the ones with feet attached-- last night, he almost caught "IT" and I warned him that "IT" would get hurt if "IT" got zipped up! His response:
"If I break my penis, I can just use scotch tape to fix it."
Natan: Can sing his ABC's clearly and all the way through!! Those ear tubes are paying off!!!!
Mimi: "When can I see my China Mommy? I just want to say good bye..."
(this is not the first time this has come up...no, it does not hurt my feelings...yes, it breaks my heart for Ellen--imagine NEVER being able to find your biological mother--EVER. )
Vinny: LOVES the bath!!!!! Jason (in charge of bath time!), lays him in a few inches of water and Vinny starts: kick, laugh, repeat!!!
"If I break my penis, I can just use scotch tape to fix it."
Natan: Can sing his ABC's clearly and all the way through!! Those ear tubes are paying off!!!!
Mimi: "When can I see my China Mommy? I just want to say good bye..."
(this is not the first time this has come up...no, it does not hurt my feelings...yes, it breaks my heart for Ellen--imagine NEVER being able to find your biological mother--EVER. )
Vinny: LOVES the bath!!!!! Jason (in charge of bath time!), lays him in a few inches of water and Vinny starts: kick, laugh, repeat!!!
Saturday, November 01, 2008
Look at us!!!!!
Here is a news story from Fox News at 6:00 today! Go, Bob Crane!!!!!
http://www.myfoxatlanta.com/myfox/MyFox/pages/sidebar_video.jsp?contentId=7771680&version=1&locale=EN-US
http://www.myfoxatlanta.com/myfox/MyFox/pages/sidebar_video.jsp?contentId=7771680&version=1&locale=EN-US
Go Team George 2008!!!!!
The Atlanta heart Walk was a success!!!! Since our first walk in 2005, we have raised over $15,000--we raised $2000 this year!
It was a beautiful morning...kids got their faces painted...we met the Fox 5 Atlanta Team and had our picture taken with them (thanks to our aggressive, new member, Dody!!). Mimi decided this year that she would NOT be riding in the stroller and she walked all 3.2 miles!! Thanks goodness for Bob Crane's hand and patience...he never let go!
As always, it was wonderful to see all the heart survivors--lots of Red Cap walkers, including George. Everyone has their own story, and it is promising to see survivors, but always heart wrenching to see the signs that say, "In Memory of..."--we are thankful each year that we don;t wear that for George...he wore his red cap proudly and all four kids were troupers! Vincey slept most of the way...
Thanks to everyone--near and far--who supported Team George 2008...we'll be back bigger and stronger next year for Heart Walk 2009!!!!!!!
Thanks to our great team this year--had a blast!!!!! We could not do this without the many hands that hold our kids' hands, and Big George on stroller duty for the third year in a row!!!!
Check out the pics in "Family Pictures"--here's a couple to wet your whistle!
Friday, October 31, 2008
Happy Hallowe'en!
Spent this Hallow's Eve with the Knolls and had a delicious supper, followed by Trick or Treating. Must say, "It's not like in the olden days!!" when every house opened its door and kids in costumes had the thrill of having candy placed in a bag!
Now, most people just stick a bowl of candy on the front porch and do not even open the door.
The second house we visited had it all: scary sounds, cobwebs, the works! This lead to George running away yelling, "Jorge doesn't like Hallowe'en!!!!" and he never really got past it. Jack and Mimi were pretty into it--for Mimi, the candy overrides the fear of ANYTHING! For Jack, it was all about ringing the door bell! Natan, in his clown fro, just toddled along, mesmerized by his "safety glow" armband, thoughtfully provided by Rachael. Vincey hung back with the menfolk, who gave out candy to the two or three kids who dared trick or treat!!!!
And a good time was had by all. Pictures coming soon...
Now, most people just stick a bowl of candy on the front porch and do not even open the door.
The second house we visited had it all: scary sounds, cobwebs, the works! This lead to George running away yelling, "Jorge doesn't like Hallowe'en!!!!" and he never really got past it. Jack and Mimi were pretty into it--for Mimi, the candy overrides the fear of ANYTHING! For Jack, it was all about ringing the door bell! Natan, in his clown fro, just toddled along, mesmerized by his "safety glow" armband, thoughtfully provided by Rachael. Vincey hung back with the menfolk, who gave out candy to the two or three kids who dared trick or treat!!!!
And a good time was had by all. Pictures coming soon...
Monday, October 27, 2008
Hee! Hee!
So...Mimi, Natan, Vinny and I are in the kitchen, George is outside with the dogs.
OUT OF THE BLUE, Mimi says, "Mama, I like having a tootie. If I didn't have a tootie, I couldn't go wee-wee."
I'm not sure whether that is profound thinking or not, but it sure made me laugh--hence the reason I am out here blogging it--I dare not laugh in front of her!!!!!!
I hope you all have a day like mine--full of pleasant surprises and much laughter!!!!!!
OUT OF THE BLUE, Mimi says, "Mama, I like having a tootie. If I didn't have a tootie, I couldn't go wee-wee."
I'm not sure whether that is profound thinking or not, but it sure made me laugh--hence the reason I am out here blogging it--I dare not laugh in front of her!!!!!!
I hope you all have a day like mine--full of pleasant surprises and much laughter!!!!!!
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
Too funny!!!!
I just received this email from a news source I subscribe to in support of Obama...I LOVE it!!!! if only they knew that Araminta Montague really can't vote!!!!!
Noah's Ark
We spent Tuesday afternoon at Noah's Ark with Aunt Sally and had FUN!!!!! Mimi's only comment was that it was long...they got a little tired near the end, but we made it with no melt downs!!
I've posted the pictures (along with some others from October) in Picasa.
Here is one to entice you to see more!!!!
The Mighty Dragon Hunters!
Here is one I love from the day we went dragon hunting...our street is now dragon-free and very safe!
Monday, October 20, 2008
Kidisms...
George and Mimi: Discussion about their new found "burp" and "fart" buttons that are in their tummies. Evidently, THAT is what controls the enormous belching and stinky gas that is emitted by said parties. How do you turn THOSE buttons off?????
They redeem themselves by singing "Where is Thumbkin" over and over again!!!!!!
Some thoughts today: (and I don't give a rat's behind if you agree or not!!!!!)
As North Americans, we DO have the responsibility of taking care of each other, no matter what our political differences may be. And yes, sometimes that means government run programs!! You may think you have walked in someone else's shoes, but chances are, you have no idea...and having a higher than normal Macy's bill does NOT count as suffering.
While I'm at it--to those of you who are against gay marriage, why--why are you so against it? What effect will it have on your life? You seem a little threatened. Hmmmm...maybe it's closer to you than you want to admit?? It all just seems very hateful, in the name of whatever your weak argument may be.
Finally, this election is really showing people's true colors--seems that most people do hide, right there under the surface--serious, racist hearts. How sad--I once considered some of these people friends. Oh well, at least now I know.
They redeem themselves by singing "Where is Thumbkin" over and over again!!!!!!
Some thoughts today: (and I don't give a rat's behind if you agree or not!!!!!)
As North Americans, we DO have the responsibility of taking care of each other, no matter what our political differences may be. And yes, sometimes that means government run programs!! You may think you have walked in someone else's shoes, but chances are, you have no idea...and having a higher than normal Macy's bill does NOT count as suffering.
While I'm at it--to those of you who are against gay marriage, why--why are you so against it? What effect will it have on your life? You seem a little threatened. Hmmmm...maybe it's closer to you than you want to admit?? It all just seems very hateful, in the name of whatever your weak argument may be.
Finally, this election is really showing people's true colors--seems that most people do hide, right there under the surface--serious, racist hearts. How sad--I once considered some of these people friends. Oh well, at least now I know.
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
More kid stuff...
Mimi: "Mama...? Am I a good draw-er? Like Mary Liz??"
George: "I love you so much."
Natan (from his seat in "The Van") : "Stop the car! Stop the car!"
Both exclaimed this morning: "Let's do Mommy School!!!!!" Rock on.
George: "I love you so much."
Natan (from his seat in "The Van") : "Stop the car! Stop the car!"
Both exclaimed this morning: "Let's do Mommy School!!!!!" Rock on.
Good morning...
Ah!! It was a facebook glitch--I went to bed feeling crappy because someone had thought of me as malicious...not the way you want people to see you!
So...to start today off on a good note:
All 3 older kids are obsessed with the Wizard of Oz (or, the "Wizzerozz" as they call it). They grab brooms and fly around the yard, cackling and hiding in the "castle", then finding each other, just as Dorothy does in the movie. George even reenacts the witch's death scene at the end: "I'm melting...I'm melting! Who would've thought..."
It's all very cute and they actually act it out more than they watch it!
Another great upside to them not being in preschool: they played outside yesterday for a total of 6 HOURS!!!!!!!!!!
George just walked in to the studio where I'm typing, clinging to himself and saying in the most pathetic voice ever..."I'm cold...I'm so cold..." It's 65 degrees. He's a southern boy through and through, eh??!!
So...to start today off on a good note:
All 3 older kids are obsessed with the Wizard of Oz (or, the "Wizzerozz" as they call it). They grab brooms and fly around the yard, cackling and hiding in the "castle", then finding each other, just as Dorothy does in the movie. George even reenacts the witch's death scene at the end: "I'm melting...I'm melting! Who would've thought..."
It's all very cute and they actually act it out more than they watch it!
Another great upside to them not being in preschool: they played outside yesterday for a total of 6 HOURS!!!!!!!!!!
George just walked in to the studio where I'm typing, clinging to himself and saying in the most pathetic voice ever..."I'm cold...I'm so cold..." It's 65 degrees. He's a southern boy through and through, eh??!!
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
Like I Said Before...
So, it seems that the link to this blog has been tagged as "malicious" on Facebook.com...not sure if that means someone has read my entries and is offended (don't care), or it's a facebook glitch.
So, all I can assume is that there is someone who doesn't like the occasional kid story, or disagrees with my opinions.
If you are reading this now--did I force you to read my blog? NO.
If you are reading this now, do I care if you agree with me or not? NO.
This blog is exactly what the title says: Ramblings... They are my own little thoughts and reactions to the stuff that happens in a day. It is not meant to offend, however, I realize some people think that anyone who has a differing view of either religion or politics is offensive. I do not use the "f" word...I only say "penis" when it is part of a kid story...and again...I DID NOT FORCE YOU TO READ IT!!!!!
So...if you are the "I-can-only-think-inside-my narrow-close minded-box" person who tagged my blog and you are STILL reading this blog...just for the record: I don't like you. What happened to free speech? If you can be a bigot...then I can be a bleeding heart liberal.
Get off my blog!
So, all I can assume is that there is someone who doesn't like the occasional kid story, or disagrees with my opinions.
If you are reading this now--did I force you to read my blog? NO.
If you are reading this now, do I care if you agree with me or not? NO.
This blog is exactly what the title says: Ramblings... They are my own little thoughts and reactions to the stuff that happens in a day. It is not meant to offend, however, I realize some people think that anyone who has a differing view of either religion or politics is offensive. I do not use the "f" word...I only say "penis" when it is part of a kid story...and again...I DID NOT FORCE YOU TO READ IT!!!!!
So...if you are the "I-can-only-think-inside-my narrow-close minded-box" person who tagged my blog and you are STILL reading this blog...just for the record: I don't like you. What happened to free speech? If you can be a bigot...then I can be a bleeding heart liberal.
Get off my blog!
Saturday, October 11, 2008
Pirate Spotting!
At Walmart the other day...a man walked in with an eye patch (OMG). George spotted him and YELLED:
"Hey, Pirate! Hi Pirate!! Pirate! PIRATE!!!!!!!" for a very long time.
Oi vey.
"Hey, Pirate! Hi Pirate!! Pirate! PIRATE!!!!!!!" for a very long time.
Oi vey.
Politics rears its ugly head...
I do not define myself by either politics or religion--I would list both categories last on a list of "Things that Define Me". However, I keep receiving emails from folks that seem to be under the impression that I, like them, am also a conservative Republican, and I would like to clear the air!
I am not a McCain/Palin fan...for many reasons. If I am ever able to vote (only once any adopted child/citizen living in this country is eligible to run for President will I change my citizenship), I will not vote Republican. Ever.
So, the only thing left to say is...
Obama '08!
What? You're surprised that I am a Democrat? Oh, and not just a Democrat...a bleeding heart, LIBERAL one!!!!!!! I don't even own a real bra, for Pete's sake!
I am not a McCain/Palin fan...for many reasons. If I am ever able to vote (only once any adopted child/citizen living in this country is eligible to run for President will I change my citizenship), I will not vote Republican. Ever.
So, the only thing left to say is...
Obama '08!
What? You're surprised that I am a Democrat? Oh, and not just a Democrat...a bleeding heart, LIBERAL one!!!!!!! I don't even own a real bra, for Pete's sake!
Thursday, October 09, 2008
To Jill (and whoever else cares to read)
Jill...!
You are in for the longest wait of your life (my opinion only). But man, when that call/photo comes, it will seem like you filed your papers yesterday!!!
PLEASE keep me posted, and I hope I can spread the good news for you around here! I hope that Natan had a little to do with your decision...lie to me if he didn't!!!!!
For those who have no idea, my oldest friend (yes, we've known each other since...1979??), Jill, is adopting a child from Ethiopia. For those who know me well, you know this makes me feel GREAT!!!
There are five moments in my life I will NEVER forget:
Keep me posted!!!!
You are in for the longest wait of your life (my opinion only). But man, when that call/photo comes, it will seem like you filed your papers yesterday!!!
PLEASE keep me posted, and I hope I can spread the good news for you around here! I hope that Natan had a little to do with your decision...lie to me if he didn't!!!!!
For those who have no idea, my oldest friend (yes, we've known each other since...1979??), Jill, is adopting a child from Ethiopia. For those who know me well, you know this makes me feel GREAT!!!
There are five moments in my life I will NEVER forget:
- my third date with Jason (and not for the reason you're probably thinking right now!)
- when I handed George over to the surgical nurse, after waiting ALL day for his postponed surgery...I remember handing him over, and then being aware of being held by Lynna S...and feeling that if she let go, I would die. I don't remember how she got me, but I'm sure glad she did...
- the moment I looked out the window of the China Centre for Adoption Affairs in Changsha, China, and saw Ellen in the arms of her social worker...and knew I would meet her in less than five minutes--our daughter...
- the day Diane called me and said, "Are you sitting down?" and I KNEW it was "the call" with Natan's referral...yes, I cried over the phone!
- the moment I got to sit up and watch Vincent enter the world--because this time was so much easier the doctor hiked me up to see him come out!
Keep me posted!!!!
Kidisms...Part????
Just some stuff that I should write down but forget...
- The kids are now in LOVE with the Wizard of Oz movie (long story)...they talk alot about "podadoes" which I have figured out means "tornadoes"--they will tell you that if there is a "podadoe", you should go the TV room in the basement, get into the cupboards, and hide!
- Mimi's new favorite thing to say: "Mama...you're the best boss and the best Mama in the whole, wide world." To which I always reply that SHE is the best Mimi in the whole wide world!
- Natan is George's mini-me, repeating and doing everything EXACTLY like big bro George!
- Whenever George hears "You Are So Beautiful", he says, in this order, with no break between thoughts: "I was teeny-tiny when Mommy sang the song...Joe Cocker's my friend. Can we go see him? No, he's in the hospiter...his tummy hurtin'..."
- Mimi: "Mama, would you teach me the letters so I can know the words so I can read?" She can write half the letters in the alphabet, and is pretty much just learning by reading every day!
- Natan has gone two FULL days in underwear and NO MESSES!!!!! Yay!
- All three are still talking about the wonder that is the Henry County Fair...and desperate to return!!
- All three can now say, "Livin' in a van, down by the river" in a very good Chris Farley-esque manner!
Wednesday, October 08, 2008
$80K later...
(This is not a vent, just an economic observation...even though it sounds a bit "venty!")
So...as many of you know, George spent 24 hours at Egelston a couple of weeks ago. We received his bill today:
$80,000.
That's what it cost to keep him overnight--that's not even the bill for the heart cath.
For those who are NOT in debt, be grateful. Be grateful that you don't have these bills every three to six months.
We are, unashamedly, in debt. We weren't in debt until George's heart condition. Now we are. We were on the plan to pay off our house in ten years, have great family vacations, etc., etc.!!!
Would we trade George for all the money in the world?? No. He's worth ever penny.
There are those who would not have adopted, because they knew there were going to be ongoing expenses throughout G's life. And, adoption is not free or cheap.
Would we trade Mimi and Natan for retirement funds? Or a paid off house? Never. They too, are worth it.
I guess it's all in your perspective. I listen to some folks whose greatest pride seems to be that they have no mortgage, they pay only with cash (although we do that now too), and have no debt whatsoever...I used to think those were all important goals. Until we had these kids. Now, I would sell my lungs to give them what they need, debt be damned!
So, enjoy your debt free lives...while we enjoy our beautiful children!
So...as many of you know, George spent 24 hours at Egelston a couple of weeks ago. We received his bill today:
$80,000.
That's what it cost to keep him overnight--that's not even the bill for the heart cath.
For those who are NOT in debt, be grateful. Be grateful that you don't have these bills every three to six months.
We are, unashamedly, in debt. We weren't in debt until George's heart condition. Now we are. We were on the plan to pay off our house in ten years, have great family vacations, etc., etc.!!!
Would we trade George for all the money in the world?? No. He's worth ever penny.
There are those who would not have adopted, because they knew there were going to be ongoing expenses throughout G's life. And, adoption is not free or cheap.
Would we trade Mimi and Natan for retirement funds? Or a paid off house? Never. They too, are worth it.
I guess it's all in your perspective. I listen to some folks whose greatest pride seems to be that they have no mortgage, they pay only with cash (although we do that now too), and have no debt whatsoever...I used to think those were all important goals. Until we had these kids. Now, I would sell my lungs to give them what they need, debt be damned!
So, enjoy your debt free lives...while we enjoy our beautiful children!
Tuesday, October 07, 2008
Just stuff...
I just read my sister's blog entry for today. One of her closest friends "Down East" died a few days ago after struggling with cancer. It made me realize (as I often do at random times), how fragile life is, and how we make such a big deal out of things that really don't matter at all.
We get so caught up in life's pettiness that we lose sight of certain things: our children and their health...our own health...those who have nothing...those who are starving for food, family, and a simple hug or smile...babies born in countries where their only chance of survival is to be given up for adoption...children living in this country whose parents are so crappy that they have to be given up for adoption...people who are homeless (it is NOT their fault--even if that makes me a bleeding-heart!)...people who don't have someone to love or to love them back.
I watched the Ellen Show yesterday as a treat while I put away laundry. To quote her and her guest, here is the best advice I've heard in a long time:
"Don't be an ass."
Words to live by.
We get so caught up in life's pettiness that we lose sight of certain things: our children and their health...our own health...those who have nothing...those who are starving for food, family, and a simple hug or smile...babies born in countries where their only chance of survival is to be given up for adoption...children living in this country whose parents are so crappy that they have to be given up for adoption...people who are homeless (it is NOT their fault--even if that makes me a bleeding-heart!)...people who don't have someone to love or to love them back.
I watched the Ellen Show yesterday as a treat while I put away laundry. To quote her and her guest, here is the best advice I've heard in a long time:
"Don't be an ass."
Words to live by.
Saturday, October 04, 2008
Montague Fun!
Last week had some exciting events...
Thursday saw the arrival of Big Mac Daddy--the new van!!! It feels huge, and the kids LOVE it!!
Then, that evening, we decided to attend the Henry County Fair. We all had a blast! Mimi is definitely her Daddy's girl--eats up those rides! George is more like me and enjoys them but always with the feeling of impending doom!!!! Natan just grinned and screamed! It was all priceless! Even Vinny enjoyed himself in between cat naps. Made for a rough Friday morning, with everyone sleepy, but totally worth it.
On Friday, we took Aunt Sally to Panola State Park for some playground fun and a wasp-ridden lunch, visited the nature center, and headed home.
Looking forward to getting back on schedule!
Pictures have been uploaded...I'm finally back on track!
Thursday saw the arrival of Big Mac Daddy--the new van!!! It feels huge, and the kids LOVE it!!
Then, that evening, we decided to attend the Henry County Fair. We all had a blast! Mimi is definitely her Daddy's girl--eats up those rides! George is more like me and enjoys them but always with the feeling of impending doom!!!! Natan just grinned and screamed! It was all priceless! Even Vinny enjoyed himself in between cat naps. Made for a rough Friday morning, with everyone sleepy, but totally worth it.
On Friday, we took Aunt Sally to Panola State Park for some playground fun and a wasp-ridden lunch, visited the nature center, and headed home.
Looking forward to getting back on schedule!
Pictures have been uploaded...I'm finally back on track!
Friday, October 03, 2008
Things I will not put up with anymore...
A couple of people have complained that I haven't vented in awhile, so here goes:
(Remember, no one forces you to read my blog and I am not linked to any organization for which I work--if you do not like what I write do not read it.)
1. People (adults, not kids or youth, since they are still subject to the teachings of home and that ridiculous thing called school), who INSIST on making racial slurs and acting as if it shouldn't bother me. My daughter is Asian, on of my sons is African, two are Caucasian. Deal with it. When you make a racial slur, it DOES include my children--and from here on in, I will be very vocal to you until you shut your mouth. Is that clear enough fer ya???? If you are related to me or are simply my friend, grab some balls and stand up for my kids--dare to NOT be ignorant! I don't care what the situation is--racism and ignorance are NEVER acceptable.
2. Magazines making us all think that the way Hollywood women look is how all women should look. Sure...no problem to spend four hours a day working out with a personal trainer and then eating 6 small meals throughout the day which my personal chef has prepared with the unlimited funds I have! I do a fast but intense workout everyday, with three small children at me feet, asking questions...hanging from the weight equipment...and crawling under my Downward Dogs! And I am my own personal chef!
3. People being hypocrites. After the ridiculous homophobic "incident" in our church last fall, where a group of people reacted very foolishly toward another human being, I continue to be disgusted by their own, personal behavior. These same people, who callously judged another, do not live up to their own moral judgements. They get drunk very regularly (ok if you have no children, but grow up and get responsible if you are a parent). They claim to be "christians" but push me even further toward what I know to be true.
If you insist on using the bible as a means to win an argument (which I would never do for reasons that I will not elaborate on!), how about the part where it says you should take the stick out of your own eye...
4. "Gay Bashing"
Not a term I am fond of, but it sums it up. The only thing that separates a straight person from a gay person is who we sleep with at night, which is nobody's business. Why are republicans and christians so obsessed with gay sex? Hmmm...
Straight people have proven that marriage is hard--the divorce rate is somewhere around 50%, right?? Why shouldn't gay people be legally married? Straight people certainly screw it up enough. Maybe the gay community will get it right. Love=love, no matter what.
There. Venting completed. I am going to drink my NyQuil and go to bed. And my sober self is going to snuggle my sober husband and be grateful that we have one another.
(Remember, no one forces you to read my blog and I am not linked to any organization for which I work--if you do not like what I write do not read it.)
Things I Will Not Put Up With Anymore
1. People (adults, not kids or youth, since they are still subject to the teachings of home and that ridiculous thing called school), who INSIST on making racial slurs and acting as if it shouldn't bother me. My daughter is Asian, on of my sons is African, two are Caucasian. Deal with it. When you make a racial slur, it DOES include my children--and from here on in, I will be very vocal to you until you shut your mouth. Is that clear enough fer ya???? If you are related to me or are simply my friend, grab some balls and stand up for my kids--dare to NOT be ignorant! I don't care what the situation is--racism and ignorance are NEVER acceptable.
2. Magazines making us all think that the way Hollywood women look is how all women should look. Sure...no problem to spend four hours a day working out with a personal trainer and then eating 6 small meals throughout the day which my personal chef has prepared with the unlimited funds I have! I do a fast but intense workout everyday, with three small children at me feet, asking questions...hanging from the weight equipment...and crawling under my Downward Dogs! And I am my own personal chef!
3. People being hypocrites. After the ridiculous homophobic "incident" in our church last fall, where a group of people reacted very foolishly toward another human being, I continue to be disgusted by their own, personal behavior. These same people, who callously judged another, do not live up to their own moral judgements. They get drunk very regularly (ok if you have no children, but grow up and get responsible if you are a parent). They claim to be "christians" but push me even further toward what I know to be true.
If you insist on using the bible as a means to win an argument (which I would never do for reasons that I will not elaborate on!), how about the part where it says you should take the stick out of your own eye...
4. "Gay Bashing"
Not a term I am fond of, but it sums it up. The only thing that separates a straight person from a gay person is who we sleep with at night, which is nobody's business. Why are republicans and christians so obsessed with gay sex? Hmmm...
Straight people have proven that marriage is hard--the divorce rate is somewhere around 50%, right?? Why shouldn't gay people be legally married? Straight people certainly screw it up enough. Maybe the gay community will get it right. Love=love, no matter what.
There. Venting completed. I am going to drink my NyQuil and go to bed. And my sober self is going to snuggle my sober husband and be grateful that we have one another.
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Update
For those who are wondering what the fuss was about last week...
George went in for a "routine" Heart Cath--these procedures usually take between one and three hours and he normally bounces right back afterwards. This time, it took almost five hours and he lost 2 ounces of blood, needed a transfusion, and then had to spend the night. The doctor said they had been super aggressive, since they are desperately trying to expand his pulmonary arteries (the ones that affect his lungs).
This was the first time since his first surgery in '04 that the doctors have come in after and seemed discouraged, and worse, apologetic. For the first time ever, I heard them say, "There's just really not much else we can do..." As you can imagine, my heart plummeted...but you know how it is. You have to pick yourself off the floor and move ahead.
Someone asked me if they had given us a prognosis. I said, "No...we don't want to know." Life is unpredictable, and none of use really knows how long we will be on this Earth. If George has two, ten, or one hundred years left--great!! I just want to enjoy each and every one of them, and make sure he does too, with impending time frame. I want to look back on the kids' lives or my own life and say, "I spent as much time as humanly possible enjoying my children..." We will still be there, as a couple, when they have (god forbid!), moved out!!!! That's what marriage and family is all about...being together.
George went in for a "routine" Heart Cath--these procedures usually take between one and three hours and he normally bounces right back afterwards. This time, it took almost five hours and he lost 2 ounces of blood, needed a transfusion, and then had to spend the night. The doctor said they had been super aggressive, since they are desperately trying to expand his pulmonary arteries (the ones that affect his lungs).
This was the first time since his first surgery in '04 that the doctors have come in after and seemed discouraged, and worse, apologetic. For the first time ever, I heard them say, "There's just really not much else we can do..." As you can imagine, my heart plummeted...but you know how it is. You have to pick yourself off the floor and move ahead.
Someone asked me if they had given us a prognosis. I said, "No...we don't want to know." Life is unpredictable, and none of use really knows how long we will be on this Earth. If George has two, ten, or one hundred years left--great!! I just want to enjoy each and every one of them, and make sure he does too, with impending time frame. I want to look back on the kids' lives or my own life and say, "I spent as much time as humanly possible enjoying my children..." We will still be there, as a couple, when they have (god forbid!), moved out!!!! That's what marriage and family is all about...being together.
Sunday, September 28, 2008
Atlanta Heart Walk 2008!!!
It's that time again...the Atlanta heart Walk! November 1, 2008 at Turner Field...
Here is the montage to promote it for Team George (this is our fourth year walking!)
GO TEAM GEORGE!Sign up by clicking on the link to the right...
Here is the montage to promote it for Team George (this is our fourth year walking!)
GO TEAM GEORGE!Sign up by clicking on the link to the right...
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
Our new baby...
Here's the new "Big Daddy" van coming our way...
It's going to need some bumper coverage and a little dab of color!
whew!
I had planned to take Mimi & George to see the musical, "Treasure Island" tonight, when our childcare plans fell through. My first thought was to can the whole idea, but, brave mom that I am, I took ALL FOUR KIDS!!!!! Started at 7:30 (bedtime!), and last until 9:30. They were great!! Natan sang along, but not so loudly that he could be heard, Vincent watched, laughed, and then slept! It was a dress rehearsal, so we didn't bother any paying customers, and the show was GREAT!!!!!
Yes, this is a boring post, but I'm tired and can't sort out all the funny stuff that happens in a day!
Yes, this is a boring post, but I'm tired and can't sort out all the funny stuff that happens in a day!
Thursday, August 28, 2008
Quick Kidism...
A quick one today as I am getting ready to teach...
This morning, after giving Natan a handful of raisins, Mimi asked if she could have some "big raisins" which is what we call "prunes". As I was giving them to her, George said, "Those are poop raisins," to which Mimi replied, "Yep--because they make me poop."
Lovely, and all before 8 a.m.!!!!!!
That's all I got today!!!! Mostly because if I don't write down what they say when they say it, I plum forget!!!!!
This morning, after giving Natan a handful of raisins, Mimi asked if she could have some "big raisins" which is what we call "prunes". As I was giving them to her, George said, "Those are poop raisins," to which Mimi replied, "Yep--because they make me poop."
Lovely, and all before 8 a.m.!!!!!!
That's all I got today!!!! Mostly because if I don't write down what they say when they say it, I plum forget!!!!!
Tuesday, August 26, 2008
Sunday, August 17, 2008
Random stuff
Mimi: Driving to her four-year old doctor check up with Minna:
"Mama??? Someday when I big, I'm going to stay with you. I won't leave." (THANK YOU!!!!!!!)
George: Lying in bed while getting his nightly tickles from Minna:
"Mommy..I am not the boss."
"That's right, George, you're not."
"I'm not."
"George--who is the boss?"
"Mommy is the boss."
"That's right, George, I am."
"You the boss, Mommy."
"Why is Mommy the boss, Georgie?"
"'Cause you have boobies. Only people with boobies can be the boss."
Seriously. How in the heck did he come up with THAT???
"Mama??? Someday when I big, I'm going to stay with you. I won't leave." (THANK YOU!!!!!!!)
George: Lying in bed while getting his nightly tickles from Minna:
"Mommy..I am not the boss."
"That's right, George, you're not."
"I'm not."
"George--who is the boss?"
"Mommy is the boss."
"That's right, George, I am."
"You the boss, Mommy."
"Why is Mommy the boss, Georgie?"
"'Cause you have boobies. Only people with boobies can be the boss."
Seriously. How in the heck did he come up with THAT???
Monday, August 11, 2008
Ahhhh...
7:00 a.m. morning snuggles (late today--not sure why)
7:30--pancakes and cheese grits for the three...baby still sleeping in his crib
8:00--read "Superdog, the Heart of a Hero"
8:30--"Yoga for Kids"--lots of Downward Diggity Dogs!!!
9:00--get Vinny up, dressed, and fed
9:00-10:00--play in the new playroom (more on that later)
10:00--go for a "trike" ride down to the cul de sac and back--Mimi wins by a mile!
10:30--swim in the pool after Mommy removes HUGE spider!
11:00--Mac n cheese, carrots, and graham crackers for lunch
12:00-12:30 dance and sing to our favorite Sharon, Lois, and Bram Cd
12:30--crawl into "big" bed to watch "World World" on GPB
1:00--Read "Goodnight, Gorilla" and snuggle before nap
3:00--make a blog entry while the three big kids nap and Vinny coos beside me!!
Life is good...
7:30--pancakes and cheese grits for the three...baby still sleeping in his crib
8:00--read "Superdog, the Heart of a Hero"
8:30--"Yoga for Kids"--lots of Downward Diggity Dogs!!!
9:00--get Vinny up, dressed, and fed
9:00-10:00--play in the new playroom (more on that later)
10:00--go for a "trike" ride down to the cul de sac and back--Mimi wins by a mile!
10:30--swim in the pool after Mommy removes HUGE spider!
11:00--Mac n cheese, carrots, and graham crackers for lunch
12:00-12:30 dance and sing to our favorite Sharon, Lois, and Bram Cd
12:30--crawl into "big" bed to watch "World World" on GPB
1:00--Read "Goodnight, Gorilla" and snuggle before nap
3:00--make a blog entry while the three big kids nap and Vinny coos beside me!!
Life is good...
Saturday, August 02, 2008
O.M.G. (Oh. My. Google.)
Google is a good and bad thing...
With Google, we can find information on just about ANYTHING from A to Z. This is a good thing.
With Google, we can find information on just about ANYTHING from A to Z. This is a bad thing.
When George's heart defect was diagnosed, we Googled and found out more than we ever imagined about his condition.
I love using Google to just discover things I didn't know...as a resource for teaching...as a means of answering questions when Jason (the smart one in this marriage!) isn't home! (Come to think about it, I just like saying the word Google!).
However--with Google, we have learned the following:
Lucky for me, I am too busy playing around with four fabulous little creatures and cleaning poop off the floor (yes, it happened again and this time I had to do the dirty deed since Jason was out!). Perhaps we should reinstate the underwear rule--where the kids actually wear it!
Goodnight, sweet Google...I'll search you in the morning!
With Google, we can find information on just about ANYTHING from A to Z. This is a good thing.
With Google, we can find information on just about ANYTHING from A to Z. This is a bad thing.
When George's heart defect was diagnosed, we Googled and found out more than we ever imagined about his condition.
I love using Google to just discover things I didn't know...as a resource for teaching...as a means of answering questions when Jason (the smart one in this marriage!) isn't home! (Come to think about it, I just like saying the word Google!).
However--with Google, we have learned the following:
- George is a sociopath (ok, not true, but after a google episode, this seemed possible!!!)
- Natan has Fragile X syndrome (again, not true, but those symptoms...Egads!!)
- Proteus syndrome is very sad
- Harriet Tubman's birth name was Araminta
- the best city to live in is Lee Vining in California
- All of our moles are eventually going to kill us
- there are 530 hits when you type "Jason Montague"
- there are only 8 hits when you type "Araminta Montague"
- Silly Putty is 50 years old
- Araminta has every rare disease that she finds on Google--don't you think you have all those symptoms, too??
- Montague was a member of Slytherin in the Harry Potter series!
Lucky for me, I am too busy playing around with four fabulous little creatures and cleaning poop off the floor (yes, it happened again and this time I had to do the dirty deed since Jason was out!). Perhaps we should reinstate the underwear rule--where the kids actually wear it!
Goodnight, sweet Google...I'll search you in the morning!
Friday, August 01, 2008
A new month.
I have nothing, really to write about today. Things are quiet on the Montague front.
Vincent is cooing and going with an audience of three...
Natan is wee-weeing on the potty (constantly!!)...
Mimi is "reading" books by herself and exclaiming, "Mama--I just LOVE to read!!" or, "That letter goes in my name!" (anytime she sees an M, I, or W!)...
George is being George--woke everyone up at 6:00 today and doesn't like the new regime that has been put in place...
Jason is happy to be spending the afternoon with all four...
I am heading out to get some work done with my two devoted helpers, Olivia and Celeste...
Uh, hello? Life doesn't get better than this!
Oh, and in case I haven't written this in awhile: INGRAMS...COME BACK! We miss you!!!!!!
Vincent is cooing and going with an audience of three...
Natan is wee-weeing on the potty (constantly!!)...
Mimi is "reading" books by herself and exclaiming, "Mama--I just LOVE to read!!" or, "That letter goes in my name!" (anytime she sees an M, I, or W!)...
George is being George--woke everyone up at 6:00 today and doesn't like the new regime that has been put in place...
Jason is happy to be spending the afternoon with all four...
I am heading out to get some work done with my two devoted helpers, Olivia and Celeste...
Uh, hello? Life doesn't get better than this!
Oh, and in case I haven't written this in awhile: INGRAMS...COME BACK! We miss you!!!!!!
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
July 30
Today was a good day. Natan and I made it to his surgery and he did very well--we were home after only three hours. He goes for a follow up in three weeks and they'll do another hearing test.
I let him watch "Finding Nemo" on the way home and I realized something. Marlin (Nemo's Dad) wasn't paranoid or a bad dad. He just loved Nemo and couldn't bear to have anything hurt him...I get that.
I think Marlin gets a bad rap in the movie for being such a worry wart. I think he just loved his son.
Clearly I am deliriously tired, seeing that I am analyzing a Disney movie about an animated fish and his getting rescued by other animated sea creatures. Might be time to go to bed!!!
Oh yeah...in case you're wondering from the previous post:
Barf on Mommy: 0
Pooh on floor: 0
It's a great day!!!!!
I let him watch "Finding Nemo" on the way home and I realized something. Marlin (Nemo's Dad) wasn't paranoid or a bad dad. He just loved Nemo and couldn't bear to have anything hurt him...I get that.
I think Marlin gets a bad rap in the movie for being such a worry wart. I think he just loved his son.
Clearly I am deliriously tired, seeing that I am analyzing a Disney movie about an animated fish and his getting rescued by other animated sea creatures. Might be time to go to bed!!!
Oh yeah...in case you're wondering from the previous post:
Barf on Mommy: 0
Pooh on floor: 0
It's a great day!!!!!
Ewww......
YESTERDAY. 4:50 p.m.
George wakes up from nap complaining of being sick: "I sick."
George has fever and says his ear hurts: "My ear is hurtin'."
When George is lethargic, we pay attention since he is ALWAYS on the go! Our pediatrician has told us because of his heart to bring him whenever he has a fever--we are not hypochondriac parents.
Almost to the doctor (just George and Mommy), and I hear: "Bluhhh...." or whatever it sounds like when an almost four year old is about to barf.
I was at a stop sign (thank goodness since my car is actually clean), and I gave him a grocery bag--he barfed in it. Good job, George.
Doctor checks his ears--no infection but water from swimming. Has no idea why the fever and barfing. Gives me a prescription for ear drops.
We are inside CVS to fill prescrip. I tell George as we are walking in: "If you think you're going to be sick, tell me."
Place my order--they say: "It will be $50 AFTER insurance pays half" Don't get me started!!!!
I am waiting, holding George in my arms and I hear: "Bluhhh...."
Bad Mommy moment coming...I said (louder than I meant): "Oh crap!!!!" (which alerts the pharmacist that there may be an issue with the lady waiting for her ear drops!).
To prevent George's barf from going all over the carpeted floor at CVS, I covered his mouth with my hand. So...now there is barf running down my whole arm, a puddle of it in my hand, and the rest of it all over our clothing. It's hot. It stinks. Now I want to barf.
The nice pharmacist gives me an industrial size roll of paper towel and directs me to the bathroom. I think she may have wanted to barf too...
We made it out, barely.
AT HOME, 30 minutes after the barfing episaode:
Natan starts to cry in a rather anguished way but there is no one around him. The reason?
There are three piles of pooh on the floor and one ready to come out of his bum. It stinks. It's pooh. It's gross. I am still covered in barf (having just walked in the door) so Jason (super Dad that he is!) sticks Natan on the potty and cleans the pooh.
FIVE MINUTES LATER:
Natan is off the potty an crying again. I look at the floor (naturally!) and there is a large puddle of diarrhea underneath him. It stinks. Can I barf NOW????
Jason bathes him, but not before he steps in the pooh...
What a day.
George wakes up from nap complaining of being sick: "I sick."
George has fever and says his ear hurts: "My ear is hurtin'."
When George is lethargic, we pay attention since he is ALWAYS on the go! Our pediatrician has told us because of his heart to bring him whenever he has a fever--we are not hypochondriac parents.
Almost to the doctor (just George and Mommy), and I hear: "Bluhhh...." or whatever it sounds like when an almost four year old is about to barf.
I was at a stop sign (thank goodness since my car is actually clean), and I gave him a grocery bag--he barfed in it. Good job, George.
Doctor checks his ears--no infection but water from swimming. Has no idea why the fever and barfing. Gives me a prescription for ear drops.
We are inside CVS to fill prescrip. I tell George as we are walking in: "If you think you're going to be sick, tell me."
Place my order--they say: "It will be $50 AFTER insurance pays half" Don't get me started!!!!
I am waiting, holding George in my arms and I hear: "Bluhhh...."
Bad Mommy moment coming...I said (louder than I meant): "Oh crap!!!!" (which alerts the pharmacist that there may be an issue with the lady waiting for her ear drops!).
To prevent George's barf from going all over the carpeted floor at CVS, I covered his mouth with my hand. So...now there is barf running down my whole arm, a puddle of it in my hand, and the rest of it all over our clothing. It's hot. It stinks. Now I want to barf.
The nice pharmacist gives me an industrial size roll of paper towel and directs me to the bathroom. I think she may have wanted to barf too...
We made it out, barely.
AT HOME, 30 minutes after the barfing episaode:
Natan starts to cry in a rather anguished way but there is no one around him. The reason?
There are three piles of pooh on the floor and one ready to come out of his bum. It stinks. It's pooh. It's gross. I am still covered in barf (having just walked in the door) so Jason (super Dad that he is!) sticks Natan on the potty and cleans the pooh.
FIVE MINUTES LATER:
Natan is off the potty an crying again. I look at the floor (naturally!) and there is a large puddle of diarrhea underneath him. It stinks. Can I barf NOW????
Jason bathes him, but not before he steps in the pooh...
What a day.
Monday, July 28, 2008
You gotta' see this!!!
The "twins" strike again!
Jason and I broke a cardinal rule and laughed in front of the oldest two today. They emptied a bottle of baby powder out in their room during their nap time...it was EVERYWHERE!!!!!
Go to the family pictures section--I added the pictures of the mess in the July folder--they're at the end of all the July pics.
Sunday, July 27, 2008
Ouch! This is painful!
If you have a couple of minutes and your volume is turned up...this is one uncomfortable interview--maybe I'll rethink homeschooling after all!!!!!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PUgGwJl-kzM
And yes, I am wasting time looking at YouTube and should be doing the dishes!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PUgGwJl-kzM
And yes, I am wasting time looking at YouTube and should be doing the dishes!!
Saturday, July 26, 2008
Sad house...
We're all a little out of sorts since Nana and Great Auntie Gail left today. George and Mimi kept asking "why she leave us?" but it helps to tell them we'll see them again in November, after G's birthday, Halloween, and the Heart Walk (yes, that's on Nov. 1st!).
Vinny is really cooing and going, but I suspect he misses Auntie, too, since she was always very willing to hold him, and hold him, and then hold him some more!!!!
Natan has his surgery this coming Wednesday, very early a.m.--it will only take about five minutes, but he'll be in recovery until the afternoon.
Other than that, all is calm...relatively speaking!
Vinny is really cooing and going, but I suspect he misses Auntie, too, since she was always very willing to hold him, and hold him, and then hold him some more!!!!
Natan has his surgery this coming Wednesday, very early a.m.--it will only take about five minutes, but he'll be in recovery until the afternoon.
Other than that, all is calm...relatively speaking!
Friday, July 25, 2008
I should have become a doctor...
$1,100 per month to Blue Cross from Jason's pay...
$30 copay for today's visit at the ENT doc...
$100 will get billed to the insurance company for today's visit to the ENT doc...
The visit consisted of me telling them what Natan weighs/the doctor listened to his breathing/I signed a consent form for his surgery...
Wow...that was money well spent.
These ear tubes better be paved with gold...
$30 copay for today's visit at the ENT doc...
$100 will get billed to the insurance company for today's visit to the ENT doc...
The visit consisted of me telling them what Natan weighs/the doctor listened to his breathing/I signed a consent form for his surgery...
Wow...that was money well spent.
These ear tubes better be paved with gold...
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Someday...
I am a Canadian citizen.
I have no current plans to change my citizenship.
The day that my two adopted children can run for President, I will proudly become a U.S. citizen so that I can cast my vote for my kid.
My daughter IS an American citizen.
My son is close to becoming one.
Remember--before you start spouting at me about patriotism--I pay taxes just like you do (and so will they someday), and we are subject to the same laws--why the hell can't Mimi or Natan become president if that is their goal?
And here I thought everyone had the right to the American dream...sorry, kids.
I have no current plans to change my citizenship.
The day that my two adopted children can run for President, I will proudly become a U.S. citizen so that I can cast my vote for my kid.
My daughter IS an American citizen.
My son is close to becoming one.
Remember--before you start spouting at me about patriotism--I pay taxes just like you do (and so will they someday), and we are subject to the same laws--why the hell can't Mimi or Natan become president if that is their goal?
And here I thought everyone had the right to the American dream...sorry, kids.
Friday, July 18, 2008
More minor doctor updates...
George has to have another heart cath...bummer.
Vinny had his shots today and is NOT a happy camper. However, better to be vaccinated than not. Contrary to what some wacky people think, being vaccinated does not cause Autism, but gee...it sure does fight off alot of nasty diseases...
People who do not give their children vaccinations should spend some time in a developing country...then let them decide whether they should expose their kids to unthinkable, preventable diseases...most of the kids I met in Ethiopia last year did not have the option to be vaccinated, and most of them are likely dead, one year later.
Vinny had his shots today and is NOT a happy camper. However, better to be vaccinated than not. Contrary to what some wacky people think, being vaccinated does not cause Autism, but gee...it sure does fight off alot of nasty diseases...
People who do not give their children vaccinations should spend some time in a developing country...then let them decide whether they should expose their kids to unthinkable, preventable diseases...most of the kids I met in Ethiopia last year did not have the option to be vaccinated, and most of them are likely dead, one year later.
Thursday, July 17, 2008
Gee, Beaver...
Yesterday, while wearing a pink "Roots Canada" t-shirt, Mimi points to the front and says:
"Look, Mama...my beaver is shiny and pink."
Nuff said...
This, in pink, is on the front of her shirt:
"Look, Mama...my beaver is shiny and pink."
Nuff said...
This, in pink, is on the front of her shirt:
Life is great...
Here's why (as of now, at 1:09 am, because I cannot get to sleep!!!!)
1. Vincent is sleeping in his crib (George NEVER did!!) and we can hear him breathing...his bum is stuck up in the air!
2. Mimi says at random times during the day, "Love you, mama..." and that just melts my heart.
3. Natan fell out of bed awhile ago and held me so tight when I went in to pick him up off the floor that I never wanted to let go...
4. George told me today (after using a TON of soap to wash his hands) that "I workin', mom, 'cause I'm a big boy, you hear??" and somehow, the soap everywhere didn't seem such a big deal after all!
5. Jason came home with fat free hazelnut coffee creamer since I had run out...he wanted me to have it for the morning...I didn't even ask for it!!
Life is great...
1. Vincent is sleeping in his crib (George NEVER did!!) and we can hear him breathing...his bum is stuck up in the air!
2. Mimi says at random times during the day, "Love you, mama..." and that just melts my heart.
3. Natan fell out of bed awhile ago and held me so tight when I went in to pick him up off the floor that I never wanted to let go...
4. George told me today (after using a TON of soap to wash his hands) that "I workin', mom, 'cause I'm a big boy, you hear??" and somehow, the soap everywhere didn't seem such a big deal after all!
5. Jason came home with fat free hazelnut coffee creamer since I had run out...he wanted me to have it for the morning...I didn't even ask for it!!
Life is great...
Wednesday, July 09, 2008
Doctor updates...
George saw his cardiologist today--got another neutral report. Stenosis in one artery is still causing concern--they are deciding whether or not to do another procedure. Yeesh. His BP is good (finally!) So the new pills are working...
Saw the ENT doctor today. I went to have a second opinion regarding my nodules. Turns out, the first doctor is a crackpot and I DON"T HAVE THEM!!!!! The doctor today said, "You have a really good looking larynx." Damn straight I do!!!!!!!!
So...he also checked out Natan's ears. Turns out I have been right about him the whole time--he DOES have hearing loss and he DOES need tubes!!! This may explain his speech delay and some of his obvious frustration that comes when you hear everything as if you are under water. I have been told by so many people that I have been overreacting--guess not, eh?!
This has been a great day all round for the Montague family throats and ears--yay!
Looking forward to Nana's and GAG's visit in 11 days! Start the humming, Natan!
Saw the ENT doctor today. I went to have a second opinion regarding my nodules. Turns out, the first doctor is a crackpot and I DON"T HAVE THEM!!!!! The doctor today said, "You have a really good looking larynx." Damn straight I do!!!!!!!!
So...he also checked out Natan's ears. Turns out I have been right about him the whole time--he DOES have hearing loss and he DOES need tubes!!! This may explain his speech delay and some of his obvious frustration that comes when you hear everything as if you are under water. I have been told by so many people that I have been overreacting--guess not, eh?!
This has been a great day all round for the Montague family throats and ears--yay!
Looking forward to Nana's and GAG's visit in 11 days! Start the humming, Natan!
Friday, July 04, 2008
No more Jon & Kate Plus 8...BOO!!!!!!
So...occasionally if I'm flipping channels, I stop and watch the TLC show, "Jon & Kate Plus 8." It's about a family with 8 kids--they have twins and sextuplets, a result of fertility treatment (which I am openly not a fan of). I thought it was kind of a cute show, until I saw their website. This family had the opportunity to adopt a baby, and SHE turned it down. And, being "Christians" (whatever that means!), she says that God was leading them there. Whatever. Last time I checked, humans have a little something called FREE WILL!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Here is the section from her writing that is particularly offensive to me:
The girls turned one and I started thinking about more children….After all, the girls had been pure fun and I wanted to do it again! But, Jon wasn’t convinced. I prayed for a long time that God would change his mind. It took a long time and a rough experience for both of us for that to happen…In May 2003, we had the opportunity to adopt a newborn in kind of a rare circumstance. Things were moving really fast and we prayed about it and felt that this was not meant to be. Jon and I came to a joint decision that we were not ready to take on such a responsibility at the time. We felt God leading us that way. Jon was amazed that I so willingly “turned down a baby”. It hurt so badly, but I knew we were doing the right thing. I mourned for the better part of a month and it was then that Jon agreed to let us return to try and have another baby. He saw just how badly I wanted to be a mommy again.
So...what she is saying is that her god decided it would be better for her to have more fertility treatment and add 6 kids, versus adopting a child who need a loving home. I wish people would stop using the "I waited for god to lead me, and he didn't, so it wasn't meant to be" crap and start making decisions for themselves. That baby needed a home--adopt it. What kind of god is your god that he leads you away from that child??? Whatever. I am disgusted. Absolutely disgusted. What a selfish person she is--and there is no way to defend it. And, she is now going to raise 8 kids to be just as narrow minded, selfish, and heartless as she is. Why do stupid people exist?? Seriously. And worst of all, why do they procreate? Oh yeah...because of god.
Good thing we cancelled cable!
Here is the section from her writing that is particularly offensive to me:
The girls turned one and I started thinking about more children….After all, the girls had been pure fun and I wanted to do it again! But, Jon wasn’t convinced. I prayed for a long time that God would change his mind. It took a long time and a rough experience for both of us for that to happen…In May 2003, we had the opportunity to adopt a newborn in kind of a rare circumstance. Things were moving really fast and we prayed about it and felt that this was not meant to be. Jon and I came to a joint decision that we were not ready to take on such a responsibility at the time. We felt God leading us that way. Jon was amazed that I so willingly “turned down a baby”. It hurt so badly, but I knew we were doing the right thing. I mourned for the better part of a month and it was then that Jon agreed to let us return to try and have another baby. He saw just how badly I wanted to be a mommy again.
So...what she is saying is that her god decided it would be better for her to have more fertility treatment and add 6 kids, versus adopting a child who need a loving home. I wish people would stop using the "I waited for god to lead me, and he didn't, so it wasn't meant to be" crap and start making decisions for themselves. That baby needed a home--adopt it. What kind of god is your god that he leads you away from that child??? Whatever. I am disgusted. Absolutely disgusted. What a selfish person she is--and there is no way to defend it. And, she is now going to raise 8 kids to be just as narrow minded, selfish, and heartless as she is. Why do stupid people exist?? Seriously. And worst of all, why do they procreate? Oh yeah...because of god.
Good thing we cancelled cable!
Happy Fourth!
I just thought this was funny...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kZho5myNUdY
And...everyone knows ABBA now because of the musical and the movie, but there are those of us who are old time, die hard fans--how many of you put a slip on your head (for long hair) and sang on your parent's "fireplace stage"...here is one of my top three ABBA favorites:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0AGe995z3Fk
Enjoy...
I seriously need to go to bed--what am I doing?? I will regret this late hour tomorrow, early in the morning when a couple of snugglers crawl into bed...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kZho5myNUdY
And...everyone knows ABBA now because of the musical and the movie, but there are those of us who are old time, die hard fans--how many of you put a slip on your head (for long hair) and sang on your parent's "fireplace stage"...here is one of my top three ABBA favorites:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0AGe995z3Fk
Enjoy...
I seriously need to go to bed--what am I doing?? I will regret this late hour tomorrow, early in the morning when a couple of snugglers crawl into bed...
Kidisms 7...
Mimi said to me tonight, out of the blue:
"Mama...this shirt isn't really working for me." (Referring to her pj top which for some reason is a little small--she is a mini teen!!!!!)
George, after I found him sitting on the stairs and asked him why he was out of bed:
"There's bad guys. They shootin' me." (Thus began a little debate between George and me--he insisted there were bad guys shooting him from the trees...I however, doubted they were there. I won and he and Mimi went back to bed, holding hands for protection!!!)
"Mama...this shirt isn't really working for me." (Referring to her pj top which for some reason is a little small--she is a mini teen!!!!!)
George, after I found him sitting on the stairs and asked him why he was out of bed:
"There's bad guys. They shootin' me." (Thus began a little debate between George and me--he insisted there were bad guys shooting him from the trees...I however, doubted they were there. I won and he and Mimi went back to bed, holding hands for protection!!!)
Wednesday, July 02, 2008
Best laugh in awhile!!
I just got a message from a long lost friend (elementary school days!!). We were best friends and spent LONG hours on the phone, were boy crazy (Hello? Todd and Chris???), and she actually remembers that we used to sit in my closet and tape record ourselves farting!!!!! Oh. My. God. Best email in FOREVER!!!!! She is one of the best memories I have from school days...it leaves me wondering again how people lose touch. I am a total slacker when it comes to communicating, and I think that's bad. I am having a ball remembering all the goofy things from "my past!"
I hope our kids have the same kind of friends I did--they were fabulous. Only this time, they'll have to use a digital recorder instead of cassettes to capture their farts!!!!!!!!!
I hope our kids have the same kind of friends I did--they were fabulous. Only this time, they'll have to use a digital recorder instead of cassettes to capture their farts!!!!!!!!!
FYI...Birmingham
We had a blast with the Ingrams in Birmingham--it flew by (overnight trip). We met "Moses" (ML's grandaddy), and got see ML's parents briefly which was great! B'ham is beautiful--it's Roswell, Alpharetta, and Buckhead all rolled into a nice little community. It was great to see them, and we had a melancholy trip home...we miss them!!!!!
Tuesday, July 01, 2008
Ahhh...the girls!
Just saw Sex and the City for the second time, and loved it as much as the first time! I am not ashamed to admit it...I loved the series (HBO version, not the censored version), and I unabashedly love the movie!! And I wasn't the only one who shed a little tear!!
Nice to have a little gal time...
Nice to have a little gal time...
Happy Canada Day!
Happy Canada Day to all my Canucks...!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BRI-A3vakVg
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tnzQF7JCF0o
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BRI-A3vakVg
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tnzQF7JCF0o
Monday, June 30, 2008
Wow--my favorite new discovery!
Facebook.
I'm lovin' it.
I stumbled on facebook.com last night as I was waiting for pictures to upload to the blog. I don't even know how I ended up there! All of a sudden, I'm seeing pictures of people who look slightly older (and I mean, slightly!), but there they are--familiar, smiling faces of past friends.
I don't know when or how I lost touch with most of them. Time does bad things...and so does moving away and getting lazy in keeping up those friendships.
But...reading responses from folks that I once spent more time with than my own family was rejuvenating (and hey--I NEVER use that word in my life!!).
I heard from someone I knew back in the 9th and 10th grade--she still looks like a teenager, except with her own house and two gorgeous kids!
Heard from a college gal whom Ilived with for a year and I just can't imagine what kept me from keeping in touch--bad, bad girl am I.
So...thanks, facebook.com. You are my new favorite/favourite thing!
I'm lovin' it.
I stumbled on facebook.com last night as I was waiting for pictures to upload to the blog. I don't even know how I ended up there! All of a sudden, I'm seeing pictures of people who look slightly older (and I mean, slightly!), but there they are--familiar, smiling faces of past friends.
I don't know when or how I lost touch with most of them. Time does bad things...and so does moving away and getting lazy in keeping up those friendships.
But...reading responses from folks that I once spent more time with than my own family was rejuvenating (and hey--I NEVER use that word in my life!!).
I heard from someone I knew back in the 9th and 10th grade--she still looks like a teenager, except with her own house and two gorgeous kids!
Heard from a college gal whom Ilived with for a year and I just can't imagine what kept me from keeping in touch--bad, bad girl am I.
So...thanks, facebook.com. You are my new favorite/favourite thing!
Thursday, June 26, 2008
Busy Bees...
Not much time to blog these days--just keeping busy!
Tomorrow we wrap up VBS and then head to Birmingham for an overnight visit with our recently displaced friends, the Ingrams.
Mimi & George have had a good time at their first VBS--spent alot of time wandering...free spirits that they are!
Check out the video clips of our future Olympian, Mimi, in the pool! She's amazing--takes after Da!
Natan apparently is hard of hearing (no joke). We are in the process of clearing his ear canals and then heading to an ENT in the near future. Poor guy...we think he hears everything as if under water--explains alot!!!!!
Vincent is growing like a weed and starting to smile and laugh--the kids are fascinated by him and are so gentle--it is very sweet to watch each of them interact with him. Natan seems especially enamoured with him and is very loving--brings him his bottle, finds his binky, and just plain loves on him!
Oh yeah...and no. I will not be putting the big kids in school this year. Stop asking/telling me. This is for anyone with the notion that I give a crap what they think.
In fact, we're pretty set on homeschooling. And I ask this of all you teachers who are vehemently against it: What on earth would you do if ALL the homeschoolers in our county decided this year to enter the public system?? There wouldn't be enough room, and you know it. So...everyone has the right to choose how he/she educates, and I feel that I am qualified--check my credentials if you feel the need. So, back off already.
There--you didn't really think I would have an entry without some sort of vent, did you???
Tomorrow we wrap up VBS and then head to Birmingham for an overnight visit with our recently displaced friends, the Ingrams.
Mimi & George have had a good time at their first VBS--spent alot of time wandering...free spirits that they are!
Check out the video clips of our future Olympian, Mimi, in the pool! She's amazing--takes after Da!
Natan apparently is hard of hearing (no joke). We are in the process of clearing his ear canals and then heading to an ENT in the near future. Poor guy...we think he hears everything as if under water--explains alot!!!!!
Vincent is growing like a weed and starting to smile and laugh--the kids are fascinated by him and are so gentle--it is very sweet to watch each of them interact with him. Natan seems especially enamoured with him and is very loving--brings him his bottle, finds his binky, and just plain loves on him!
Oh yeah...and no. I will not be putting the big kids in school this year. Stop asking/telling me. This is for anyone with the notion that I give a crap what they think.
In fact, we're pretty set on homeschooling. And I ask this of all you teachers who are vehemently against it: What on earth would you do if ALL the homeschoolers in our county decided this year to enter the public system?? There wouldn't be enough room, and you know it. So...everyone has the right to choose how he/she educates, and I feel that I am qualified--check my credentials if you feel the need. So, back off already.
There--you didn't really think I would have an entry without some sort of vent, did you???
Monday, June 16, 2008
Kidisms 6...
Last night, George hollered from the bedroom to come up NOW and check out the fireworks (He and Mimi have decided to occupy the double bed in Mimi's room now, and they were on about something).
Turns out, the"fireworks" were actually bolts of lightning, masked by a very cloudy sky. They argued with us when we said it was just lightning, so we concluded in the end, that indeed, it was fireworks. Mimi and George asked, "Who do dat?" Jason (stinker that he is) replied, "Those are God's fireworks." So Hallmark cards! Then, George decided it was "work" and God was doing his "elmocizing."
Man oh man. No wonder we're all exhausted by morning!!!!
Today, after the daily collection of roly poly bugs from outside into the house, George looked at his new pet and told him, "Don't get dead on me today."
Turns out, the"fireworks" were actually bolts of lightning, masked by a very cloudy sky. They argued with us when we said it was just lightning, so we concluded in the end, that indeed, it was fireworks. Mimi and George asked, "Who do dat?" Jason (stinker that he is) replied, "Those are God's fireworks." So Hallmark cards! Then, George decided it was "work" and God was doing his "elmocizing."
Man oh man. No wonder we're all exhausted by morning!!!!
Today, after the daily collection of roly poly bugs from outside into the house, George looked at his new pet and told him, "Don't get dead on me today."
Thursday, June 12, 2008
Wow, wow and more wow!!!!!
We just got home from a wonderful evening of music. We went with Sally to see "The Army Soldier Show" at the Clayton PAC. This is a touring show that simply entertains army families--they audition and then tour throughout the world. They are all soldiers on active duty, and they perform 300 shows a year. They were AMAZING!!!!! American Idols have nothing on this group of musicians! I was blown away!
I may not be a pro-war gal, but I am pro-military, and after seeing the "army family" tonight, I realize where the appeal may be for some who join the military. Where else can you develop deep bonds with fellow members? Where else can you become bother or sister to so many folks? Where else can you develop a sense of loyalty and camaraderie with so many people that you most likely would not get anywhere else? I saw it tonight in the celebration of the audience members, many of whom are without family members who are serving elsewhere.
One of our choir members, Bo Dyess, leaves for Afghanistan in a couple of weeks. He was there tonight with his wife and daughter (we were there because of him). I couldn't be a military wife. I know that. I don't have it in me. I thought of him, surrounded by so many others who have been or may be shipped out over the years. Whether some think it or not, it is likely the most honorable thing you can do--serve in the military. We are honored to know Bo--and not just because he is a West Point graduate which even I understand to be an incredible accomplishment. And I'm Canadian for Pete's sake! See?? You CAN believe in separation of church and state and still be patriotic!!!!!!!!
I may not be a pro-war gal, but I am pro-military, and after seeing the "army family" tonight, I realize where the appeal may be for some who join the military. Where else can you develop deep bonds with fellow members? Where else can you become bother or sister to so many folks? Where else can you develop a sense of loyalty and camaraderie with so many people that you most likely would not get anywhere else? I saw it tonight in the celebration of the audience members, many of whom are without family members who are serving elsewhere.
One of our choir members, Bo Dyess, leaves for Afghanistan in a couple of weeks. He was there tonight with his wife and daughter (we were there because of him). I couldn't be a military wife. I know that. I don't have it in me. I thought of him, surrounded by so many others who have been or may be shipped out over the years. Whether some think it or not, it is likely the most honorable thing you can do--serve in the military. We are honored to know Bo--and not just because he is a West Point graduate which even I understand to be an incredible accomplishment. And I'm Canadian for Pete's sake! See?? You CAN believe in separation of church and state and still be patriotic!!!!!!!!
Monday, June 09, 2008
Life with Kids...
Vincent has been in the hospital since Saturday, 11:30 pm. He had a 103 temp, and we were told to "bring him on in" since he's under three months. The policy is to keep him in for 48 hours, so he is still there...I miss him!!!! Jason and I took turns, and tonight is his night. We love Egelston--the nurses, techs, etc. are fabulous!! But there's no place like home...
HUGE THANKS to Angie and Cameron Ross who were on triple threat duty today whole Jason and I switched roles.
And then, Jack and Delores Candy brought a boat load of food over.
Thanks to everyone who offered to help and checked up...we really do appreciate it.
I blame this on our friend, Stephen. Vincent was so sad he got sick. Stephen, you should feel guilty.
We have postponed our trip to Canada and will plan to go in November when Jason has the week off for T'giving. We realized in our eagerness to show Vincent off, we were overlooking his age and the fact that he may be a little young to travel!
I'm whooped and going to bed before 10:00!!!!!!!!
HUGE THANKS to Angie and Cameron Ross who were on triple threat duty today whole Jason and I switched roles.
And then, Jack and Delores Candy brought a boat load of food over.
Thanks to everyone who offered to help and checked up...we really do appreciate it.
I blame this on our friend, Stephen. Vincent was so sad he got sick. Stephen, you should feel guilty.
We have postponed our trip to Canada and will plan to go in November when Jason has the week off for T'giving. We realized in our eagerness to show Vincent off, we were overlooking his age and the fact that he may be a little young to travel!
I'm whooped and going to bed before 10:00!!!!!!!!
Thursday, June 05, 2008
George!!!!!!!!
Went for a walk tonight after dinner...as we walked by our neighbor's house down the street, the dad was out on his driveway. George asked (in his deep, LOUD voice):
"Can I play with your balls?"
(He was, of course, referring to the basket balls that are always laying there...)
"Can I play with your balls?"
(He was, of course, referring to the basket balls that are always laying there...)
Wednesday, June 04, 2008
Dance Recital Dress Rehearsal
This is the video from Mimi and George's dress rehearsal. The recital is this Saturday!
Tuesday, June 03, 2008
Couldn't have said it better...
Doug Simpson said at lunch on Sunday:
"It takes a village to raise a Montague..."
I couldn't agree more!!!!!!
"It takes a village to raise a Montague..."
I couldn't agree more!!!!!!
Thursday, May 29, 2008
Kidisms 5
Stuff we've been hearing around the house:
"Can we keep Vincent?" (Mimi and George)
"It's a baby..." (Natan)
"I love my budder Vincent" (Mimi)
"I like you Vincent." (George)
Mimi & George are fascinated with the breast pump. Makes for interesting pumping times!
Mimi watched me change Vincent and exclaimed (after a thorough examination):
"Look Mama...he has a baby penis!" (He'll love her for that comment some day!)
All three are being very sweet to Vincent and I'm sure they're all feeling the squeeze of a new one being added to the mix, but so far, so good...
"Can we keep Vincent?" (Mimi and George)
"It's a baby..." (Natan)
"I love my budder Vincent" (Mimi)
"I like you Vincent." (George)
Mimi & George are fascinated with the breast pump. Makes for interesting pumping times!
Mimi watched me change Vincent and exclaimed (after a thorough examination):
"Look Mama...he has a baby penis!" (He'll love her for that comment some day!)
All three are being very sweet to Vincent and I'm sure they're all feeling the squeeze of a new one being added to the mix, but so far, so good...
Monday, May 26, 2008
One year!
I meant to post this earlier, but it's been a year since we brought Natan home. His Adoption Day was May 22.
On the 18th I realized, "This time last year we had 2 kids..." Then, on the 22nd, I said, "This time last year we had 3 kids..." Today, I am saying, "We have 4 kids--one year later!!!!" Crazy!
We will definitely take next May off, then see what happens!!!!!
Pictures from last May...yikes! Same hair...Mommy needs a new do!
On the 18th I realized, "This time last year we had 2 kids..." Then, on the 22nd, I said, "This time last year we had 3 kids..." Today, I am saying, "We have 4 kids--one year later!!!!" Crazy!
We will definitely take next May off, then see what happens!!!!!
Pictures from last May...yikes! Same hair...Mommy needs a new do!
Sunday, May 18, 2008
Introducing Vincent Conrad Montague
It's been almost a week and I apologize for not uploading anything! The computer went on the fritz last week and just got hooked back up.
So...Vincent arrived last Monday, May 12th at 4:44 pm. He weighed 7 pounds, 8 ounces and was 20.5 inches long. He is a good little baby and sleeps alot, and after the initial weight loss over the first few days, he is eating well and gaining steadily.
Mimi, George, and Natan are very sweet to watch. Mimi is fascinated by breastfeeding, George likes to watch me pump, and Natan likes to point at Vincent and just say, "baby." If we let him, George would hold Vincent 24/7--true love!
Some conclusions:
1. Women who choose not to use medication for pain relief during childbirth are insane, crazy women who simply make every one's lives harder. My doctor emphatically agreed when I shared that with her. Simply having a baby is "natural"--using medication does NOT make it less so.
2. It is wise when leaving a hospital with a newborn baby to have actually removed the safety bracelet which alerts hospital security that a baby is being kidnapped...yes, Vincent's was not removed by the discharge nurse and we shut down the elevators. Nice one.
3. It doesn't matter how many kids you have...the rush of love you feel when you meet the new one is overwhelming. Having kids is addictive!
4. We have a chaotic, crazy house...but it's our family and we LOVE it!
Favorite quote regarding Vincent's birth:
A little girl in my choir asked her mom last Monday if maybe Miss Araminta had had her baby yet. Her mother answered, "Yes, in fact, she did." The little girl then said, "I wonder what color he is..." LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!! Thank you, Haley!
So...Vincent arrived last Monday, May 12th at 4:44 pm. He weighed 7 pounds, 8 ounces and was 20.5 inches long. He is a good little baby and sleeps alot, and after the initial weight loss over the first few days, he is eating well and gaining steadily.
Mimi, George, and Natan are very sweet to watch. Mimi is fascinated by breastfeeding, George likes to watch me pump, and Natan likes to point at Vincent and just say, "baby." If we let him, George would hold Vincent 24/7--true love!
Some conclusions:
1. Women who choose not to use medication for pain relief during childbirth are insane, crazy women who simply make every one's lives harder. My doctor emphatically agreed when I shared that with her. Simply having a baby is "natural"--using medication does NOT make it less so.
2. It is wise when leaving a hospital with a newborn baby to have actually removed the safety bracelet which alerts hospital security that a baby is being kidnapped...yes, Vincent's was not removed by the discharge nurse and we shut down the elevators. Nice one.
3. It doesn't matter how many kids you have...the rush of love you feel when you meet the new one is overwhelming. Having kids is addictive!
4. We have a chaotic, crazy house...but it's our family and we LOVE it!
Favorite quote regarding Vincent's birth:
A little girl in my choir asked her mom last Monday if maybe Miss Araminta had had her baby yet. Her mother answered, "Yes, in fact, she did." The little girl then said, "I wonder what color he is..." LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!! Thank you, Haley!
Saturday, May 10, 2008
Monday!
Vincent will be arriving Monday--Mum is enjoying some free time at the mall, Jason had some free time this morning at Men's Breakfast, and I...wait a minute! I've had less free time in the past two weeks than I've had in three and a half years!!!!! Thank goodness I love my kids, or I'd be crazy! I suppose alone time is for wimps...
Thursday, May 08, 2008
Realizations (albeit incorrect in my opinion)
Jason and I are terrible parents...
Our children are out of control, heinous brats...
I am sorry my kids don't always sit still...
I am sorry they get frustrated and actually show it sometimes...
I am sorry they don't always listen the first (or fifth!) time...
I am sorry they don't act like boring little robots...
Actually, I am not sorry at all. I am grateful to those of you (and you know who you are!) who appreciate them for their little personalities, and understand that they ARE JUST LITTLE CHILDREN!!!!! No, I don't hit. Yes, I do time-outs. Yes, I have tremendous patience. But mostly, I am just in love with our kids...perhaps the most important thing there is.
Our children are out of control, heinous brats...
I am sorry my kids don't always sit still...
I am sorry they get frustrated and actually show it sometimes...
I am sorry they don't always listen the first (or fifth!) time...
I am sorry they don't act like boring little robots...
Actually, I am not sorry at all. I am grateful to those of you (and you know who you are!) who appreciate them for their little personalities, and understand that they ARE JUST LITTLE CHILDREN!!!!! No, I don't hit. Yes, I do time-outs. Yes, I have tremendous patience. But mostly, I am just in love with our kids...perhaps the most important thing there is.
Saturday, May 03, 2008
No words...
There are no words to describe the latest reaction to a comment made in front of my mom and George and Natan.
Yesterday, while Mimi and I were at the doctor, mum took the boys to the Eagles Landing Publix. While she and the Publix girl were loading the groceries, a woman (can't use my mom's description!!!), walked by and said, "I wonder what poor family they stole those kids from."
My mom and the girl were dumbfounded and the woman simply drove away.
That is perhaps the worst yet...I wish I had been there, because I am now, after all this time, prepared to say something--anything--to stop these people (you know, the stupid ones), from talking out loud.
Am I happy that children need to be adopted? No. Unless they are being abused, children should be able to live with their biological families. However, this is not currently the world we live in. Natan would be dead had he stayed where he was. That is just the plain, hard truth.
In this country, there should not be "unplanned" pregnancies. We have access to birth control--free if needed, but parents are too naive to put their children on it. So adoption should not be an issue here .
I wish I could find that woman and set her straight, although there would be no point. The evidence is conclusive: stupid people cannot change. Sadly, they will always be quick to open their mouths and start spewing. So....be prepared for my reaction.
Yesterday, while Mimi and I were at the doctor, mum took the boys to the Eagles Landing Publix. While she and the Publix girl were loading the groceries, a woman (can't use my mom's description!!!), walked by and said, "I wonder what poor family they stole those kids from."
My mom and the girl were dumbfounded and the woman simply drove away.
That is perhaps the worst yet...I wish I had been there, because I am now, after all this time, prepared to say something--anything--to stop these people (you know, the stupid ones), from talking out loud.
Am I happy that children need to be adopted? No. Unless they are being abused, children should be able to live with their biological families. However, this is not currently the world we live in. Natan would be dead had he stayed where he was. That is just the plain, hard truth.
In this country, there should not be "unplanned" pregnancies. We have access to birth control--free if needed, but parents are too naive to put their children on it. So adoption should not be an issue here .
I wish I could find that woman and set her straight, although there would be no point. The evidence is conclusive: stupid people cannot change. Sadly, they will always be quick to open their mouths and start spewing. So....be prepared for my reaction.
Friday, May 02, 2008
What are the odds?????
Vincent shifted! He is once again, head down! The doctor was shocked and pleased (as was I), and said this never happens this late and we should probably buy a lottery ticket!!!!
Mimi was with me, and was happy that "no big giant knifes" would be in use on Mommy!!!
So...then she gave me some ways to help move the labor into action (which I cannot write here on this blog...!), and sent me on my way! Still inducing in a week and a half. Yay!!!!!!!!!! I never thought I would be so excited to put "that area" through that again, but man, I am I ever!!!!
Mimi also informed me today after the appointment that she had changed her mind from the last time and no longer wants to be a "tootie doctor." She has decided that when she grows up, she wants to be a ghost...awesome.
Mimi was with me, and was happy that "no big giant knifes" would be in use on Mommy!!!
So...then she gave me some ways to help move the labor into action (which I cannot write here on this blog...!), and sent me on my way! Still inducing in a week and a half. Yay!!!!!!!!!! I never thought I would be so excited to put "that area" through that again, but man, I am I ever!!!!
Mimi also informed me today after the appointment that she had changed her mind from the last time and no longer wants to be a "tootie doctor." She has decided that when she grows up, she wants to be a ghost...awesome.
Wednesday, April 30, 2008
Nana!!!!!!!
Nana's here--yay!!!!
We are all very excited by this...especially the kids. They are now taking turns sleeping in the afternoon with her. Very exciting stuff.
Jason and I are happy to have someone cooking meals, and Mum is happy to have people to cook for! So...everyone is happy, but one person in particular is VERY tired already...I can't understand why!!
We are all very excited by this...especially the kids. They are now taking turns sleeping in the afternoon with her. Very exciting stuff.
Jason and I are happy to have someone cooking meals, and Mum is happy to have people to cook for! So...everyone is happy, but one person in particular is VERY tired already...I can't understand why!!
Friday, April 25, 2008
Vincent update
Well...Vinny WAS head down, ready to go, but over the past month he has shifted into a breech position and the doctor told me today there is a 4% chance he'll move now that I'm in week 37.
His head is kind of up to the right and he's lopsided in there, but other than that, he's fine. She said I could still schedule an early delivery, but it will be a c-section and not an induction. Crap. Not looking forward to this now...Mum's panicking because she's going to have to HOLD THE BABY!!!!!!!!!
If you have a c-section story--please DO NOT SHARE IT!!
His head is kind of up to the right and he's lopsided in there, but other than that, he's fine. She said I could still schedule an early delivery, but it will be a c-section and not an induction. Crap. Not looking forward to this now...Mum's panicking because she's going to have to HOLD THE BABY!!!!!!!!!
If you have a c-section story--please DO NOT SHARE IT!!
Kidisms 4...
Last night at the Olive Garden, George started to say (thankfully, right before we were leaving and not arriving), "Hi, Christmas!" over and over, and not so softly. It turns out, there was a man a few tables away wearing a red shirt and he had a long white beard with long white hair...even the table next to us caught sight of it and laughed. We left to George calling out, "Bye, Christmas!"
Thursday, April 24, 2008
Apology...
For Carly and Samantha who I know read the blog:
Yes, the friends moving are the Ingrams...
Yes, I lied to you...
Yes, it was wrong, but it wasn't my place to give you the news...
No, I will not lose sleep over it...!
Yes, the friends moving are the Ingrams...
Yes, I lied to you...
Yes, it was wrong, but it wasn't my place to give you the news...
No, I will not lose sleep over it...!
Happy Ethiopian Easter!
"Fasika" (Easter in ET) is this Sunday (April 27, 2008).
What a great excuse to go somewhere this weekend for some fabulous Ethiopian cuisine...
I finally have a reason to put Natan in his traditional ET clothing. He hasn't worn it since the new year celebration last September, and he looks ever so cute!!!
What a great excuse to go somewhere this weekend for some fabulous Ethiopian cuisine...
I finally have a reason to put Natan in his traditional ET clothing. He hasn't worn it since the new year celebration last September, and he looks ever so cute!!!
Monday, April 21, 2008
Hmmm...
The Montagues are very sad. Their dearest friends are moving away and it sucks. One of the very few folks who you can drop in on or have over on a moment's notice and not worry what anybody looks like, or if the house is clean, or even if we all smell bad. Our kids love each other and actually play well together, and this just sucks.
I have a pit on my stomach and I've cried more in the past three days than in my entire pregnancy.
This sucks.
DON'T GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have a pit on my stomach and I've cried more in the past three days than in my entire pregnancy.
This sucks.
DON'T GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Saturday, April 19, 2008
A lighter note...
Mimi and George had their first official swimming lesson today. They proudly walked in to the gym with their "Gold's Gym" membership necklace on and proceeded to have a blast! I waited in the car with Natan, but got the full story!
They kept repeating the rest of the day: "No bathroom in pool." Meaning, of course, that you never, ever wee-wee in the swimming pool. I think that was the main point of the lesson!
They are supposed to practice humming with their face in the water this week in the bathtub.
Homework!!!!!!
They kept repeating the rest of the day: "No bathroom in pool." Meaning, of course, that you never, ever wee-wee in the swimming pool. I think that was the main point of the lesson!
They are supposed to practice humming with their face in the water this week in the bathtub.
Homework!!!!!!
Small Dilemma
Something Jason and I are "struggling" with...acquaintances of ours provide their teenager with alcohol--they allow this person to drink in front of them and others, including other children. We are of the mind that it is just wrong to set that kind of example for your children. It is a parent's job to teach and provide consequences for breaking rules or laws.
I'm sure some of you think we're prudes--we're not. But a law is a law. The drinking age in this country, whether we agree or not, is 21. For a parent or any adult to give alcohol to a minor is very simply breaking the law. How do you then teach your child what is right and wrong?
If they rape someone, is that ok? If they drink and drive, is that ok? If they shoplift, is that ok?Those are all against the law as well, but I am almost positive those actions would not be condoned by these same parents. By allowing them to knowingly break the law, they are blurring the line between right and wrong. How then can you expect them to follow other, more serious laws?
My hope is that when, out of control in a drunken state, this teenager kills only himself and nobody who actually adds value to the world.
I'm sure some of you think we're prudes--we're not. But a law is a law. The drinking age in this country, whether we agree or not, is 21. For a parent or any adult to give alcohol to a minor is very simply breaking the law. How do you then teach your child what is right and wrong?
If they rape someone, is that ok? If they drink and drive, is that ok? If they shoplift, is that ok?Those are all against the law as well, but I am almost positive those actions would not be condoned by these same parents. By allowing them to knowingly break the law, they are blurring the line between right and wrong. How then can you expect them to follow other, more serious laws?
My hope is that when, out of control in a drunken state, this teenager kills only himself and nobody who actually adds value to the world.
Thursday, April 17, 2008
Captain, my captain!
Mimi and George have a new friend...his name is "Captain" and I think he's a pirate. They came to the kitchen yesterday, holding hands, and stated (rather boldly), that "We need eye patches and a ship."
OK. Let me get right on that. NANA!!!! We need you here NOW!!!!!!!!!!! I think ships and eye patches fall into Nana territory!
Captain rides in the back of the car with them and they fake feed him real food. Hmmm...
Sometimes Captain is sick and has to stay in bed. Sometimes he is naughty and they put him in the corner. Oh my.
OK. Let me get right on that. NANA!!!! We need you here NOW!!!!!!!!!!! I think ships and eye patches fall into Nana territory!
Captain rides in the back of the car with them and they fake feed him real food. Hmmm...
Sometimes Captain is sick and has to stay in bed. Sometimes he is naughty and they put him in the corner. Oh my.
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